" Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?" This is from 2Corinthians 6:14 in the Bible.
Does this not mean that you should not marry non christians?
2007-08-09 04:59:17 · 22 answers · asked by multicurious 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Yep, that is what I think it means. Often people of different faiths have additional trouble in their marriages because of those differences.
2007-08-09 05:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Tom♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does. God knew that when a believer marries a non-believer it causes problems in the marriage. I am married to an unbeliever. I did not get serious about my faith until after we had been married for five years. After that, that is when the real problems started. We love each other dearly but cannot agree on a lot of things. God knew that that is exactly what happens, that is why He told us to not be unequally yoked. However, it also says in His Word that if a believer is married to a non-believer, do not divorce them. Stick with them, because by your example, they may come to believe. I believe that with all of my heart, as I have seen my husband make great strides and changes during the past three years. He is actually a lot more understanding than he used to be. But, what it shows is that God knows what He is talking about and that if we just follow the bible we will be spared of a lot of trouble.
2007-08-09 05:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For a Christian, dating a non-Christian is unwise, and marrying one is not an option. Second Corinthians 6:14 (KJV) tells us not to be “unequally yoked” with an unbeliever. The imagery is of two incompatible oxen sharing the same yoke. Instead of working together to pull the load, they would be working against each other. While this passage does not specifically mention marriage, it definitely has implications for marriage. The passage goes on to say that there is no harmony between Christ and Belial (Satan). There can be no spiritual harmony in a marriage between a Christian and a non-Christian. Paul goes on to remind believers that they are the dwelling place of the Holy Spirit, who inhabits their hearts at salvation (2 Corinthians 6:15-17). Because of that, they are to be separate from the world—in the world, but not of the world—and nowhere is that more important than in life’s most intimate relationship—marriage. The Bible also says, “Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character’ (1 Corinthians 15:33). Having any kind of intimate relationship with an unbeliever can quickly turn into something that is a hindrance to your walk with Christ. We are called to evangelize the lost, not be intimate with them. There is nothing wrong with building quality friendships with unbelievers, but that is as far as it should go. If you were dating an unbeliever, what would honestly be your priority, romance or winning a soul for Christ? If you were married to an unbeliever, how would the two of you cultivate a spiritual intimacy in your marriage? How could a quality marriage be built and maintained if you disagree on the most crucial issue in the universe—the Lord Jesus Christ?
2016-05-17 22:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hubby was an athiest when we married, me a Lutheran. Didn't push or shove, just went to church without him. 10 years later when babies came along, told him he was going to church, because we were going as a family. He didn't even have to say the liturgy or sing the hymns. I didn't even want him to if he didn't believe. Couple years down the road.... he's following the liturgy and the hymns. 3 years ago... was baptized. Totally his choice. I did no pushing, no prodding, no preaching.... my only request was that he stand when it was time to stand and sit when it was time to sit. The rest was all between him and God!
So... if I had not married him because we were "unequally yoked", perhaps he would have never come to know Christ. Maybe we met and fell in love for a reason beyond our knowledge. Sorry.. I've seen too many really good marriages of "unequally yoked" become "equally yoked" at a point during the marriage.
Best friends celebrated their 15th, another set just had their 12th. All began "unequally yoked", all are now stronger than ever, complete with husbands who have come to believe and be baptized.
2007-08-09 05:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by usafbrat64 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It does mean that Christians should not marry non believers. It doesn't mean you cant.
My hubby is not a christian. It is hard to seek something when the person you love is not seeking it right there along side you, especially for a husband who is not because the man is the head of the home, and is supposed to be responsible for his family's relationship w/ God.
As long as the spouse is not trying to get the believer to stop believing, it will be like any other marriage with good times, & bad times.
2007-08-09 05:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by ♫O Praise Him♫ 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yep!!!!Read 1 Corinthians 7:10-15 If u are already married this might help u understand what God would want you to do next!
2007-08-09 05:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by notthatagain 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The "unequally yoked" needs further consideration.
2007-08-09 05:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not only should you not marry a non-believer, you shouldn't be close friends with them. You also shouldn't do business with them (although this is hard to get past). Witnessing & evangelism is one thing, but being best buds with people that don't share your morals, values, or focus can seriously inhibit your progress.
This is part of being IN the world, but not OF the world.
2007-08-09 05:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by azar_and_bath 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Yes, I think you have made the correct interpretation. Give this man a cupie doll. The word should is properly placed. But we humans often do things we should not.
2007-08-09 05:02:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes. One reason is that there would be too much tension between the two. Non-Christian men have been known to be abusive to the Christian wife to persecute her.
2007-08-09 05:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by Sharon 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋