...a black guy to date white chicks but not okay for black girls to date white guys?........My boyfriend is white and we get the look all the time when we go out!
2007-08-09 04:40:25 · 11 answers · asked by Bibi 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bibi, are you looking back? We all know that interracial dating exist, some people just may look a little longer to see how you guys interact in public...that is why I stare...I like to see if you are holding hands, where is the eye contact, is this a new relationship, are there kids...I stare at couples all the time...I even stare at same sex couples....odd couples....we all stare...dont let that deter you from going out...what do you stare at?
2007-08-09 06:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by ThunderCats 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, black guys with white chicks DO get "looked at" all the time. There was just a case in the news last week where a black football player was with a white cheerleader and they were getting death threats. So your perception is inaccurate. That said, there is nothing wrong with it either way. Some people are just racists. Not much you can do about it but get on with your life and ignore them. Good luck!
2007-08-09 11:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Black guys get the look too, trust me. My Aunt married a black man (she was white) and her parents freaked out about it. You might get the look just cuz they're jealous, or your attractive... depends on the type of look.
One of my worst fears is that someone will try and discriminate against me for my skin colour. I'm really dark, but Middle Eastern (I think). But the girls seem to like that, so I'm ok so far!
2007-08-09 11:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately racism is still running rampant in our country. There is nothing wrong with it. I have seen many couples in a relationship just like yours. Don't let it bother you.
Also depending on the community you live in, it may not be racism at all. Depending on the racial make up of the place you live, it could just be something a lot of people are not used to seeing. I know where I grew up there were very few couples like you two, but where I live now it is not uncommon at all.
2007-08-09 11:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by Jake S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no matter what the difference there is always going to be someone against it. fat/skinny black/white old/young so relax. if it bothers you then it won't work. also people alway stare. you could be the same color and people would look at you. You are just sensitive to it so you notice it more
2007-08-09 11:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by tapanga 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just so you know.........a black guy that dates a white chick still gets the look too........
2007-08-09 11:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very OK to be with someone to love just don`t give them any attention properly they don`t know the filing of being in love!!
2007-08-09 11:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it should matter i think people are just rude and don't understand that people want to be with the person they love no matter what color...every time you get the look just think about how that person is probably stuck in a crappy relationship.
2007-08-09 11:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by brittanylee0487 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is someone for everyone. Thank the Lord for that!
2007-08-09 11:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by Chris K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who cares what they think, do they live with you? pay your bills or contribute to your life at all? screw them....
2007-08-09 11:43:49 · answer #10 · answered by 2sexxxy32 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋