My only concern is my 3ry old wil be jealous. My husband says it is not the 3yr old birthday and only the birthday child should recieve presents.
2007-08-09 02:52:49 · 12 answers · asked by sexy_gurlie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
My 3 year old was set off on Fathers Day when only dad got presents (so I know how you feel) Then we explained its not like Christmas (if you celebrate that) where everyone gets presents. We get to share in the fun, but its a celebration for that person coming into our lives. Id do something with the 3 year old special, to either shop for a small gift and wrap it, or make one, or even have them help you make the cake or a special treat, and have them join in that way.
2007-08-09 02:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by lillilou 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My grandsons turned 4 and 6 this summer. The 4 year old had a melt down at the 6 year old's birthday party because he just could not understand that HIS turn was coming in only 2 months.
I suggest giving your 3 year old a basket of small individually wrapped toys and treats to 'open' while the 4 year old is opening hers/his.
And don't forget to do the same for the 4 year old at the 3 year old's birthday party.
And concerning the jealousy over the leapster....surely they can share and take turns?
2007-08-09 03:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by Puzzler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he Leapster is a great gift for your 4 year old. She will get lots of hours of play out of it. As far as your 3 year old, she has to understand that it is no her birthday and when it is her she will get something nice and the older child will not. Maybe you can plan a special outting with your young child so she does not feel left out after the fact.
2007-08-09 03:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Ransom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant raise your child to think that no one else is allowed to get presents unless they do.. 3 years old is plenty old to learn this. i have a boy thats about to turn 4, i dont know about leapsters, but he has a vsmile that he absolutely loves. and though you shouldnt go out and buy presents for the 3 year old, they should share with eachother. if thats not plausible for some reason and its a toy that both would want, maybe wait til christmas and make it a joint present?
2007-08-09 03:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by Bobbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could do a cake - but it takes time to cut up, serve, etc. Cupcakes are another option but I would suggest taking a pack of wet-wipes along for messy faces. Ask the teacher if anyone is allergic to anything in the class (chocolate, peanuts, etc.) so you are sure not to have anyone feel left out. Rice Krispy treats with different colors of decorator gel drizzled on top or sprinkles goes over well. Also - homemade cookies - they aren't quite as messy as cake. As far as healthy treats - fruit, granola bars, if you do fruit salad you could take a can of whipped cream along to jazz it up a bit. Hope it all goes well!
2016-04-01 07:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should have been introduced to the Leapster when she was 2! All my grandkids were.,and their thriving in school because of their head start . Also it's about time she learned about sharing.
2007-08-09 03:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by The Bride 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is right, if your 4 yr is willing to share then the 3yr should be fine. Maybe you should buy her the same thing for her bday. Or you might have to result to hiding the present from her or distracting her so she wont see her sis open it.
2007-08-09 02:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by just_some_girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my cousin got a leapstar and loves it to bits!
She really enjoys it!
And as for the 3 year old, your husband is right, but to avoid her ruining her sisters birthday, buy her some sweets, or a book, or a CD, something small, but effective!
Hope this helps, && hope your daughter has a lovely birthday.. x
2007-08-09 02:57:05 · answer #8 · answered by Darlin'x 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your husband is exactly right...here is a suggestion...my mother when we kids were younger would buy the birthday girl her presents and then she would buy the non birthday girl ONE present...that way she didnt feel left out..because we were so close in age and wouldnt understand birthdays when we were younger...maybe you can do that for your daughters birthday...(my sister and I are 3 years apart...so i understand where you are coming from) at the same time, she/he really needs to understand that its not his/her birthday...but maybe my suggestion will help...GOOD LUCK..and Happy 4th Birthday to your big girl...
2007-08-09 03:11:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your 4 year old don't mind sharing you can purchase a few extra programs so that your 3 year old can use it too. I have those for my kids. It helps them learn to read as well as many other skills. Good Luck!
2007-08-09 02:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by Snooppy707 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋