got into fight w/my bf 3 weeks ago (been together for almost 3 years) due to me having PMDD and being stupid (i am seeing a counselor and on meds)
day after the fight his grandpa passed away (he wasn't real close to him) and he flew home for funeral. i called him nite before to tell him i was sorry and sad-he was nice but seemed preoccupied. said he would call in a couple of days and he loved me.
made mistake of calling him while he was gone for computer help-he didnt answer or call back
emailed him few days later to see if he was home safe and doing ok (asked if he could help me change turn signal light in my car). he replied saying he was home,would help me,and he loved me. asked what day i wanted to come over. i replied saying friday was ok w/me-no answer back.
fixed the light myself b/c i felt bad for asking him to do things for me after being so mean to him and not caring about his feelings. i was selfish and knew it.
more below sorry!!
2007-08-08 23:32:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
emailed him to tell him i had fixed the light myself but still wanted to see him. apologized for asking him for so many things and being rude and insensitive.
got no email back so i called to see if he wanted me to come over tomorrow-he answered and we talked for almost 30 mins (i was at work so had to go) he said i should sleep today since i worked all nite and he had things to do for a friend. when i asked if we could hang out friday he said sure and sounded happy about it. ended the call saying he loved me.
would he be wanting to see me and saying he loved me if he wanted to break up?!! he did offer to fix my car too even asking me what day to come over (like he left his schedule open for me).
i know things will take time to heal so we are back the way we were but i get scared that he might want out.
but a guy doesn't agree to hang out w/you and says he loves you if he wants to break up right?
i'm a psycho paranoid and i over-worry-just need some input!! thanks
2007-08-08 23:36:11 · update #1
sounds like the guy's ignoring you
2007-08-08 23:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by Theodore H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to back of a little and let him get over a death in the family. You think he wasn't closed to his grandfather but you could be wrong about that. Just be there for him to talk about his feelings about his grandfathers death. Let him grieve and just give support.
2007-08-09 06:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by old crow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go. He said he wanted to see you. He is probably still grieving over his grandparent. Just wait to see how things go. You have already apologized. Sounds as if he has accepted it.
2007-08-09 06:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a jerk and you sound really sweet , he is the one who sounds selfish , not you honey ! I would dump him!
2007-08-09 06:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by Its been a while............. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depend in his desicion if she will brake you..if you dont like that she will brake you then make a move show that you really care for her ,show that you really love her,and be always at her side,and be responsible act like a lover to her..
2007-08-09 06:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont worry about it! same thing happened to me, were over it and still together
2007-08-09 06:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by elise_is_fly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋