i really am a likeable person and i have a great circle of friends. All my friends are either married, enganged or commited. I want to get married soon and settle down but i cant seem to find any single guy.
all the guys that ask me out are mostly married. how can i find a man to settle down with?
2007-08-08 22:41:36 · 19 answers · asked by Lee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please don't hurry. Love takes time. You are still young. You should enjoy life. When you get a little older you will find that there are many guys who want you and will treat you with respect and love that you are deserve.
Good luck :)
2007-08-08 22:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by Hope 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first.. you're probably giving off a vibe of some sort of attraction to these married guys... now it might be a mistake of talking to these guys because you have a wanting to get married... as well as the confidence a taken person gives off... and really, if you are attractive.. they have nothing to lose by asking you out.. you say no, they go home...
as far as finding the right guy to settle down with... it would be hard to really tell you how to find him, considering you give so little about your past dating life...
reason why I say that is.. if you've had a few relationships.. good or bad... depending on how you met, how the relationship was.. an the situation that lead to the demise of it... this could help you in finding why you haven't found the right guy yet.. or what you should be looking for in the next guy to give it the best chance possible..
2007-08-09 05:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, you are 23 and attractive, then I don't see any reason, why you cant fine a guy,since most of your Friends are married,why don't you tell them that you are too interested
if finding a guy, they should definitely help you out.
2007-08-09 05:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey when I was your age I found it hard to find a guy too.
Maybe you need to find a group or hobbies that would lend themselves to finding a single guy.
I was 27 when i met my man and believe it or not my mum set me up with him.
You never know where mr right is going to pop up, so stop looking, start acting.
2007-08-09 05:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ricki V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i recommend just going out there and being urself if u wanna get serious u gotta trust the person u want to spend the rest of ur life with lol i hope u find that rite dude
2007-08-09 05:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from your married friends. Travel more. Singles trips open up your venue to more single encounters.
2007-08-09 05:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by Golum27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are like parking lots. The good ones are always taken!! So drive around until you find the right one!!good luck...
2007-08-09 05:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not worry that , your Mr. Right have not appeared so far. just wait for him , and then get married. you will be happy in future . i think it is bad to get married too soon and ruin each other ' s happiness
2007-08-09 06:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by yongmeiyinnice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to a club to meet ppl. Or go online to a dating course!! U will find ur perfect person one day!!!
2007-08-09 05:46:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
arent there any single clubs/bars....NO too desperate right.MAYBE your taken friends could set you up with 1 of their cool,nice singletons....or just wait till one of them gets seperated.Dont act too willing and desperate,guys dont like it you know.Maybe life is trying to tell you to do other important stuff first...being married so young aint paradise you know
2007-08-09 05:50:14 · answer #10 · answered by ajal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋