Do yall think that guys who are quiet are arrogant or just shy. I am shy I just want to know. Also do girls just not like shy guys.
2007-08-08 15:21:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shy, shy guys are just hard to talk to.
2007-08-08 15:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think that quiet guys were arrogant...and then I married one and found the he was just shy! I think a girl will think a shy guy is cute if he allows her to know him. Treat all girls as friends and let them get to know you. Then maybe something more along the lines of romance can come of that.
2007-08-08 22:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls can't read shy guys. That's why you don't get much play. The arrogant ones are easy to spot. We can't tell what the "shy" ones are up to...
If there's a girl you like, try breaking out of your shell. Now, don't pretend to be someone you're not. Just be you. Girls like to get a read on guys. It helps if there's something to read.
Good luck--
2007-08-08 22:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that shy guys are arrogant. I can understand, sometimes you just dont know anyone and you dont feel like talking to anyone new so you just dont. Im that way, around people I dont really know... I just tend to hang back. But around my best friends I am really talkative, and I can just be myself. Sometimes you just need to see someone with their best friends to see their true personality. I love shy guys, dont worry you'll find a girl that loves you for who you are.
2007-08-08 22:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like attention, so shy guys tend to lose out because they aren't giving an abundance of attention. However, girls do like guys who listen to them, so I would suggest hanging out with a girl you do feel comfortable with. Girls make friends easily, so eventually, you will probably meet more and more of her friends, and who knows where that will lead. Just SMILE and be nice. Open the door for them. Offer to help on school projects. Join clubs. There are tons of ways to meet girls. Hope this helps you! Go get 'em!
2007-08-08 22:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think shy guys are cute. It gives me a chance to be the one to ask them out. I also like direct guys, either way. But I hate guys who just want to be with me, because of my body.
2007-08-08 22:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are painfully shy it can come across as snobby or arrogant. sadly there is no quick cure for shyness, but all is not lost, some girls like shy guys so don't be discouraged
2007-08-08 22:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by misspriss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy guys don't make themselves available to meet girls a lot of the time. How can we like you if you stay away from us?
2007-08-08 22:26:02 · answer #8 · answered by arlene k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy if they dont talk, doah!
i like shy to a point..like a guy with tooo much of an ego can make me feel like "just another girl" but if i get a shy guy to give me a compliment or flirt, its a bigger deal, cause you know that he doesn't do it often. i personally only like it when guys are cute-sy shy ( like if they blush around me or stumble around words..awww!) i dont like it wheni have to do the asking out, plans, ect. take a step forward...even if the girl isnt for you, she would know you had enough confidence to take that chance..and we appreciate that!
2007-08-08 22:25:28 · answer #9 · answered by becca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I would rather have a shy guy. But he still has to be nice.
2007-08-08 22:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋