I lied to my present bf to talk to an ex lover ( I told him we were just friend and had never been more) we had not had a sexual realtionship in over a year since I moved out of state. I still enjoyed talking to him and think of him as a friend. I call him 3 or 4 times a week for 10-15 minutes and talk about my present bf alot. He asked to come visit and I told him no I'm too busy and I spend all my free time with my bf. Do you think because I talk to him so frequently and have never told him we're done in so many words that he thinks there is still a chance for sex even though I have told him time and again how in love with my bf I am?
2007-08-08 15:15:49 · 5 answers · asked by scout 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps a chance exists, but he still wishes to be a friend
2007-08-08 15:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally see you headed for a future problem. You are already setting the ground work for it. I know you want the we are just friends relationship but you probably cant have that. You are beginning all wrong by lying to your current boyfriend about your ex. Never say never when sex is involved unless you shut the whole thing down immediately between the 2 of you it Will come back and slap you in the face. Your ex just may come between you and your boyfriend. You need to choose boyfriend or ex lover.
2007-08-08 15:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by blackpearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um yeah. you are totally sending this boy the wrong message,and i think you really need to think about how much you really do love your boyfriend or you wouldnt be going around talking to another guy..
2007-08-08 15:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want there to be a chance for sex?
2007-08-08 15:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by DMD3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him...cautiously
2007-08-08 15:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by Juliane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋