Why is it that just because a woman cares about what happens to her man, and says how she feels about something he is doing that's wrong, he gets defensive and says "you don't control me, I am a free man." My boyfriend likes to drink beer, I would go so far as to say he is a functioning alchoholic. He is pretty easy going as long as he stays strictly with beer, his tolerance for it is amazing, he could drink a case or more at a time and not even seem drunk. Anyway, he took another parttime job, he said, to stay busy so he wouldn't drink so much on the weekend, well the job is at a video store and one day he found out one of the employees drinks a few beers at work everyday, so then he started drinking at work, I said I think it is wrong to drink at work and he says I can't control him, so then he asked ME to bring him beer to work and I said NO, he got mad, said I am controlling him and I said no, I am controlling me, and I choose NOT to bring him beer at work. Am I right or wrong?
2007-08-08
15:14:28
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Shae
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P.S. my boyfriend and I have lived together for over two years, so he really is more than just a boyfriend to me, that's why I care so much about what happens to him and if he is hurting his body by drinking too much etc.
2007-08-08
15:15:46 ·
update #1