I only want to put 3 of my quadruplets up for adoption. What are the odds of the good one finding any others?

Question

I don't plan on telling the one I'm keeping.

Answer 1

Gosh, I feel sorry that you got so much hate mail. I've heard that a multiple birth like that can be difficult and perhaps sometimes some of children may be handicapped. Are all the children healthy ? Or perhaps you feel overwhelmed. I can't say that I blame you. I think they would want to find each other one day, and it may haunt you later, you may have regrets if you do put 3 up for adoption. I would try and keep them together, (it's more fun for them), They will like playing together. That keeps them occupied and entertained. I think the odds of the one finding the others are pretty good because they have all kinds of ways to do that now a days. Do you consider this to be good or bad if they found eachother? Do you want to avoid an emotionally awkward situation and not have the one child find the other 3? Or do you want the one child to be eventually be re united with his/her siblings?

Answer 2

I'm assuming this is a prank because the only way you could possibly be pregnant with quadruplets is if you took fertility drugs and I assume you did not get pregnant on purpose and then decide to put your children up for adoption. And if for some reason you are serious, there is no question that one of the most damaging things you could do is to deceive your child or children about their birth story.

Answer 3

The good one, I guess is the one your planning on keeping? I suppose if you don't tell him or her, he won't find out. But the other 3 could come looking but if they don't know about the one you kept, they would be looking for you. Can't help thinking this is very sad what you write. I hope you plan to see that the ones you give up, find good homes and hopefully together

Answer 4

Here is a saying "Anyone can be a mother to a child, however, it takes one harding working woman to be a 'mommy'."

Your a horrid *mother*!!! I would put them all up for adoption and then go kick yourself in the ***. You should have never had children.


Ur A Monster

Answer 5

OMG you need help. The good one? What? So what, the other 3 are ugly ducklings? You need to get your sh*t straight sweetie. You brought those kids into the world TAKE CARE OF THEM or give them ALL up. Sounds like they'd be better off WITHOUT YOU. They aren't dogs, THEY ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!! Have some compassion!!!

Answer 6

Judging by your myspace profile you have a link to, you are a college student hype, looking for some fun. Why don't you spend more time studying and less time trolling on Yahoo? I'm sure your Mommy and Daddy would appreciate that, too.

Answer 7

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Troll_Internet
An Internet troll, or simply troll in Internet slang, is someone who intentionally posts messages about sensitive topics constructed to cause controversy in an online community such as an online discussion forum or USENET groups in order to bait users into responding.[1] They may also plant images and data on networks that others may find disturbing in order to cause confrontation.

Answer 8

I dont think u can do that leagally. I think it is all or none. why keep just one and let the other babies go , i think u are being extrmely selffish and self absorbed. which one are u going to keep the pretty one or the ugly one. see how selfish that sounds. i hope u lose all the kids...

Answer 9

"The GOOD ONE!" Did you actually just say that? You might want to re-think this one. Given, it would be very hard to raise all 4, but people would be willing to help out. This is a gift, a blessing...try to see it that way.

Answer 10

For somebody working towards a master's degree you aren't exactly intelligent are you? Congrats to you for upsetting as many people as you have. I hope you think about these little things you do when something awful happens to you.