IM EXPLAINING TO HIM THAT IN A RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOU LIVE TOGETHER YOU'RE SUPPOSE TO GO 1/2 & 1/2 WITH ALL EXPENSES....AND I AM MOSTLY PAYING ALL THE THINGS... HE BARELY PAYS ANYTHING AND WHEN HE ASK ME TO GET SUMTHING FOR HIM AND I SAY NO...HE GETS ALL BUTT HURT!!...ANY SUGGESTIONS!...I DONT KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO... IM TIERD OF HIM NOT BEING RESPONSIBLE..
2007-08-08 14:09:29 · 7 answers · asked by CYN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont be rash.
ya dont gotta kick him out.
what i would do is have kindof a conference with him and explain what you want...again.
if he still doesnt pay up, remind him of how you've told him before and that if he doesnt start pulling his weight you're gonna put some of his stuff in boxes and send 'em to your parents or a friends or someone.
But dont tell him where they're going.
A guy loves his stuff, but make sure you follow through or he won't care.
when he starts paying more, start bringing his stuff back.
if he still is the same, take more stuff away, and more of his favorite stuff away. (ei-game consoles if he gets really bad)
remember to always have a punishment that fits the crime
good luck, hope you try it!
2007-08-08 14:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that. My boyfriend gives me his whole paycheck and takes about 300 from each of it to do with what he wants. Once that 300 is gone, well he doesn't get anymore till he gets another pay check. I hate that I have to do that to him, but in order for us to have money and pay all our bills that is how it has to be and he knows and accepts that.
2007-08-08 21:12:58 · answer #2 · answered by Arrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but if he's this way now, image what he'd be like if you married him. I was in your situation and married the guy anyway...big mistake. Divorced his @ss and found a good guy. Dump him. Seriously, it's not going to get any better. Sorry.
2007-08-08 21:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to move out or if he does not want to pay make him do all the cleaning to make up for it.
2007-08-08 21:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
draw up a written signed agreement. or let the lights get cut off. you have to make the consequenses high or he will keep doing it..
2007-08-08 21:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and carry on with your life! You will not change him, as it sounds like he has no respect for you!
2007-08-08 21:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by sten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KICK HIM OUT!
2007-08-08 21:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by jlkjts78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋