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i have a friend, that his head over hills, stupid even, about his ex-girldfriend. she has done MANY things that would cause a normal person to run away fast.......be he still wants her. Can some one please help me to debug him

2007-08-08 12:48:09 · 7 answers · asked by thisladysexy 1 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

7 answers

1. I would recommend calling my friend Olivia to break any curse or addiction. She helped one of my friends let go and find someone else just by praying. Her number is posted at
the top of http://www.houstonprogressive.org/nothanku.html

2. I would refer him to a wonderful website for
Break Up Survival on MSN groups. There he will find compassionate friends who have or are still going through the same thing; and also find buddies to give him a very swift "verbal" kick in the head to snap him out of it. Look for ILGOODGUY who will not hesitate to call someone a whipped weanie and shame them out of doormat syndrome.
I think the website forum is
http://groups.msn.com/BreakUpSurvival

3. Reverse psychology works for me. A friend of mine said when he and his brother were caught trying to smoke cedar chips, his dad make them smoke the whole stack until they got so sick they never tried it again.

Whenever I have friends in a bad relationship, I encourage them both to go to counseling together to resolve issues and preserve their friendship. Instead of criticizing and trying to force them apart, I try to be kind and sweet and supportive of them making the right decision on their own.

When he realizes how much work it will take to restore healthy relations, I think that would turn anyone off who isn't serious about it. It is not fun, and I would only go through that much pain of reworking my whole brain for someone I truly cared about, where the love is real and not something else. When they realize that person is not worth intense therapy, they focus on something else that is worth their time.

4. So I either recommend the supportive/reverse psychology approach to get past the guilt and fear and confront it head on; OR the idea of yelling some sense into someone (which I can't do but other people do well). One guy said he put a mirror by his computer, and every time he started checking her website he yelled at himself "WHY ARE YOU LETTING HER CONTROL YOU THIS WAY YOU ****" and walk off.
After feeling stupid a few times, he quit his obsession.

Whichever way works, go for it. The best thing is to give it time, and work through the thoughts. It helps not to judge or feel guilty, but just try to be honest and deal with it, and try whatever works!

2007-08-08 13:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by houstonprogressive 2 · 1 1

Wait, just to make sure I understand, you think the man feels this way because he is under a curse?
And this curse was caused by putting menstruation blood in his food?

Well, besides the fact that this is disgusting, this would have no effect except perhaps potentially transmitting disease.

There is no such thing as a magical curse that actually affects the physical world.

Love, however is much more powerful than any perceived curse, and I think that this is the culprit here.

2007-08-08 13:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

LOL, some people are just a little ignorant, (NOT STUPID, JUST IGNORANT). Other's have heard of such magick. The magick this guy is speaking of is using menstrual blood in a meal so as to have the eater fall in love with you. Sounds gross, but I've heard of people using it and seen the results. This would NOT work if the eater is a saved child of God, just FYI, they cannot be cursed or messed with. Isn't it great to be in the house of the Lord!!! Amen!

2007-08-08 13:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by Monchichi 3 · 1 1

A period is a curse on a woman, not a man. LOL!

Ask him if he got his red wings yet.

2007-08-08 12:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

and you think this is a curse? to me it just sounds like regular run of the mill male stupidity for a hottie.

2007-08-08 12:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by slo18 3 · 1 1

Sounds sexy, actually.

2007-08-08 12:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by Shawn B 7 · 0 1

Pray for him.

2007-08-08 12:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 3

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