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OK, so I love this guy that I know to death (and I mean that literally...since I really would die for him). The problem is, I don't know if he likes me back or not.
He's funny, smart, honest, straightforward, charming, kind, friendly, and hot. (Please don't say "You're just in lust." Maybe it's possible that I'm in love AND lust.)
So basically...if he knew a girl (me) who was independent, loyal, nice to everyone, smart, and had a good sense of humor--would he like her?
Please don't just tell me that I should ask him who he likes. Let's look at the possible attractions before we jump ahead to that, shall we?
P.S. In case there are any self-proclaimed "psychics" out there, he's an Aries and I'm a Scorpio. I know that was random, but I'll take any encouragement--in any form--that I can get.

2007-08-08 12:31:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

NO. I'm 13, and he's 14.

2007-08-08 12:51:09 · update #1

And yes, I do talk to him. We're friends. Sorry that I forgot to mention that.

2007-08-08 17:05:11 · update #2

20 answers

If he is straightforward, he likes that back, so go up to him and tell him how you feel

2007-08-08 12:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0 0

I need more info to "diagnose" your situation. Email me more. Kay? Hope I helped. :o) Psychics are not astrologers. They are completely different things. But this is how compatible you are by your astrological signs. Fiery Aries with watery Scorpio creates a highly charged association. Mars rules over both the signs, so there will be mutual appreciation of strength or capabilities or fierce competition. Aries does not suspect the secretive ways of Scorpio. Excellent for team work, if goals agree, but these signs will demand much of each other.When watery Scorpio gets together with fiery Aries, they can create so much steam that it'll strip wallpaper in seconds.Any relationship between these two is certain to center on sex.Their partnership will pulsate with passion, tremble with tumultuous, torrential tumescence. What else do you expect, with two of the sexiest, sultriest signs of the zodiac? The only problem is the surges of their urges. Scorpios like to take things slowly, sensuously, spinning out sensations and being terrificallly tactile and tantalising. Arians, on the other hand, like it fast, furious and frequent. They can get carried away by the heat of the moment and can come to the boil while Scorpio is still smouldering away on love's back burner.The Scorpio will forgive-and almost forget-if it happens occasionally.

2007-08-08 12:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by cadence23 1 · 0 0

First off dont bother with psychics, at the best they will tell you what they think you want to know. Second of all there are ways (not foolproof but still somewhat good signs) of finding out if he likes you.

For starters do you even talk to him, from what i gather you havent. In that case forget about your romantic dreaming stuff and strike a conversation up with the chap. I mean you cant start a relationship based on the occasional stare.

As for conversation starters, just find something in common, something small and start from there. If its so small you feel like its hardly worth saying, say it then move on quickly. Like say "oh thats a nice shirt" "oh my names blah by the way". If you leave too much of a pause it will just get way uncomfortable.

Also try not thinking of anything about the guy, it will chain react and you'll probally frease up. Just act natural and dont overthink it.

2007-08-08 12:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0 0

Scorpio natives nudge your innermost desires. You may not immediately like Scorpio, but neither can you ignore a Scorpio. Scorpio at times tend to smother you. Too much of one thing, too much at one sitting, too much too soon. That is how Scorpio could affect you.


You could feel restricted in association with Scorpio, because Scorpio reminds you of fiscal responsibilities. This is a fire. Water relationship and could be described as anything but easy, smooth, or completely harmonious. Scorpio does many things to you. If you prefer to ignore challenge, and prefer one dish to a valid menu, then avoid Scorpio. But if psychological mystery intrigues you, then probably you have found the right person.

2007-08-08 12:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Start dropping hints for him. Do those little things that girls do to let a guy know they are romantically interested. If he starts responding, see where it goes from there.

If you think you are making some progress but he might be too shy to ask you out or have some other stupid reason, then ask him out!! This isn't 1950, nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy if he would like to go on a date.

2007-08-08 12:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by John B 1 · 1 0

Well, if he's straightforward like you said then you can probably just ask him.
Unless your scared of him not liking you.
But, either way just take a chance and find out before you get to head over heels for this man that doesn't want you.

2007-08-08 12:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

hi! i think its pretty extreme that you would die for somebody but thats how you feel, so ok. i am guessing youre friends?so cances are if he likes somebody else( you maybe) he'd have told you about it already. am sorry, but based on what you said, i dont think he likes you. likeing somebody doesnt mean they have to like you back. you maybe the greatest chick there is, but maybe youre just not his type. us girls should realize that sometimes, no matter what our friends and family say about us, some guys just wont be into us. so make this guy your inspiration to be the best you that you can be.

2007-08-08 12:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by la lang 1 · 0 0

Take a deep breath..........................

Don't ask him anything.

Walk up to him and tell him how you feel. Give him the works, that you find him funny, smart, honest, ya-da, ya-da, ya-da, and you are attracted to him.

Then just turn around and walk away.

It won't take a call to the psychic hot line to predict you will know one way or the other very soon after that.

2007-08-08 12:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by DonPedro 4 · 0 0

I had the same problem. And it is not easy to answer, cause everyone has there own way. for me i went and asked his friends if there was a girl he liked? they all said it was me that he liked. And then i asked him he said yes. Maybe you should ask around. see if anybody knows anything. if what they say matches you then ask him. but if you cant i understand.

2007-08-08 12:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by Katy Schones 1 · 0 0

umm who cares.
really u must be a kid, dont care about dudes, they will mess ur life up..seriously. keep them as friends, i mean whats the difference, the only thing couples do different than friends is kiss and junk, but u can do all the same things as friends, like hang out and crap, why ruin a could friendship, cuzz u know you 2 wont get married and will break up sometime

2007-08-08 12:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Who knows besides him? You need to take a chance. Greatness only comes through courage. Ask him out.

2007-08-08 12:35:10 · answer #11 · answered by Soldier 4 · 0 0

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