I have cheated before, I'm not proud of it. In retrospect at the time I blamed it on him, but honestly, it was just something, amoral yes, but I just wanted to do.
Am I the only one.
Tell me I'm not alone.
2007-08-08 12:00:46 · 14 answers · asked by pure conscience 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, because I honestly believe once you or mate cheats it will NEVER be the same. So it isn't worth it. Sure, we all may fantasize about that fling with another person, but it isn't worth it if you truly love that person. I guarantee you and your mates relationship will never be what it could...not wishing it on you, but cheating puts so many strains on a relationship. Good Luck!
2007-08-08 12:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by arpkdp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want to hear a long story. My hubby has never cheated, but he has chatted in the past and I discovered he is doing it again. I have never thought about cheating because I just figured it was too complicated, I haven't been that attracted to anyone, no one has shown me that much interest, my self esteem issues have certainly played a big part in my thinking. Recently I developed a bit of a crush on a fella at work who has made me realise that if the opportunity arose I could cheat, and that realisation has come as quite a shock to me and I have been feeling guilty and confused but I haven't even done anything. The fact that my husband can lie to me about his chatting and browsing and think that I am ignorant of it almost makes me think he deserves it!
2007-08-08 12:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by Nati 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I did once and it was the worst thing I have ever done to another person. I did it because I was lonely and selfish and I thought the other man could offer me so much. Looking back I should have just taken the high road and talked to my husband but I thought it was easier to search for attention elsewhere. I regret it everyday when I look at my husband. I never want to see that kind of hurt on his face again.
2007-08-08 12:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I havent but trust me, your not even close to being alone. The amount of cheating people could be turned into a army in which this world has never seen before. The cities will crumble and people will kneel at their whorie feet.
2007-08-08 12:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by multione88 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your not alone, I did it too. not proud. I was lonely and not getting any emotional or physical support from my husband. People need to be touched.
Hubby and I are in the same situation. A lot of anger in thehouse, no communication, alot of argueing.. or pushing thinsg under the rug. so on and so forth. But I have no intent on having another affair. I am considering a lawyer instead of a lover.
2007-08-08 12:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by grapelady911 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i have towards the end. i actually already told him it was over, but he didn't feel like it was. i don't feel like i cheated, but because i was so stupid and trying to get over him, i regret the guy i had after him. yes, i believe a guy can MAKE you lose lots of interest, and a LOT of people say that's why they cheated but you should at least broke up with him first! you wouldn't want to get played like that would you? don't feel so down on yourself. it's over now. just know sht happens, and learn from it! you'll be okay =)
2007-08-08 12:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you really love you will never cheat on your mate! You will just not be able to do it. When you love even the thought that another mate could touch you leads to sickness and disgust.
2007-08-08 12:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by lan_sage999 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
u r not the only one, i cheated on my boyfriend because i find out that he had feels 4 my cuz and my cuz had feels 4 him too the try 2 go together while i was still with he so that is y i cheat on he.
2007-08-09 02:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mz. SEXYGIRL 32 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have never cheated on anyone.
I have been in relationships where it was a mutual descision to not be monogomous to each other and we were both aware of what the other was doing.
And I have also helped girls cheat on their boyfriends.
But I myself have never cheated on a girlfriend.
2007-08-08 12:04:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-11 19:21:34 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋