am 18 and i could be having my best guy friends baby and i dont know what to do what would u do i havent told him yet
2007-08-08 10:58:49 · 11 answers · asked by venita 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
A word of advice...before you go off and tell him...make sure that you are pregnant first.
2007-08-08 11:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a test first and confirm you are pregnant. If you are then call your dr right away so you can get the treatment you and the baby need. Let your bff know what is going on and that if you are pregnant you expect him to step up and be a dad. You will need help raising this child and the cost of diapers, formula, clothes, etc is not cheap!! Good luck!
Don't let him talk you into an abortion either if thats not what you want.
But again take a test before you stress out to much about it.
And if you are not pregnant, remember how scare this situation is and stop having sex for a few years!!
2007-08-08 11:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by baby1august 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being pregnant by your best friend is better then being pregnant by someone you don't know. Now you both have an obligation a responsibility. Sex is pleasure able but it's not a game. Now your messing with the life of a child. The two of you need to work this out together. He needs to know.
2007-08-08 11:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by White Boyz69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing, Congradulations on the pregnancy, second, you might need to give him a heads up, depending on how positive you are that it could be his. Really this is a question you have to kinda ask yourself. Is there other possibles?? Do you want him to be the father? Around when and who you were with did you be come pregnant.
2007-08-08 11:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
DNA testing on that talk show Maury Povich. Quit being a ho before marriage. Sex only during marriage with married partner.
Get yourself some extreme mannerism and pride.
2007-08-08 11:26:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever I really wanted to do. This is your decision and yours alone to make.
First, I would probably try to find out for sure. Then I would give myself some time to think through my options.
There's a very good online workbook you can use to help you come to a decision if you haven't already. It is here: http://www.pregnancyoptions.info/pregnant.htm .
Best of luck!
Peace,
Jenn
2007-08-08 11:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by jenn_smithson 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The first thing I would do is confirm that you ARE and not just might be having his baby...
next step... TELL HIM
2007-08-08 11:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by Lissa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not much of a friend!
Get a pregnancy test so you know for sure - then work out what you are going to do.
2007-08-08 11:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by lynlands 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I agree. You will have to find out for sure and then you are going to have to tell him sooner or later.
2007-08-08 11:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by Merilee L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off... I'd make sure I was pregnant. Next... I'd go tell the father...
2007-08-11 16:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by ~<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋