I've just learn my best friend has been having fantasies about me. where both guys. please give me some advise.
2007-08-08 10:38:04 · 10 answers · asked by fay v 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've just realized what section I put this in. don't read anything off it.
2007-08-08 10:40:11 · update #1
be flattered.... people are funny, and the real thoughts that go through their heads are a gift... so thank him for the info but dont get wierded out... might want to make a joke of it but make it clear it will never hapen if it will never happen..
dont freak.. the guy was a good enough friend to be honest where most of us wouldnt.. be flattered!... even if its not your cup of tea
2007-08-08 10:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by Joel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW!! Has HE told you this?? I guess let him know that you are not interested in men in any way and you would appreciate that he not tell you things of this nature in the future. If you can still be friends with him fine tell him that. Just make sure you let him know where you stand. Don't wait until your drunk or just start yelling at him. Even if you can't be friends anymore. Just be honest. Good luck sweetie!!
2007-08-08 17:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by handvict81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain that you're heterosexual (I assume) and not interested, but continue to be his friend. I've fantasized about close female friends without taking it any further. It's the same thing really.
And be flattered. It's nice when someone (man or woman) finds you desirable.
2007-08-08 17:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by amancalledj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe your friend is having a hormone spaz right now. Or maybe your friend is homosexual. Either way, support him. And don't show him your goodies. Show me instead.
2007-08-08 17:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by omfgska 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you're flattered but you don't roll that way unless you do, then in that case it's a win-win situatuion.
2007-08-08 17:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth in a place you both are comfortable talking together. make sure you understand each other. above all talk in a calm voice.
tell me how it goes. please
2007-08-08 17:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gaydar just went off.
2007-08-08 17:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by colt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make it a point that youre strictly into girlsbut do it subtly
2007-08-08 17:41:37 · answer #8 · answered by ven m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about his fantasies, watch brokeback mountain.
2007-08-08 17:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're bi
2007-08-08 17:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by Lonewolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋