I like my boy friend a lot but the thing is he lies to me and cheets on me. But he is nice and sweet when he remebers that I'm his girl friend...... But then I know this one guy who i really want to go out with him but i don't want to cheet on my bf. the thing is the guy who isn't my bf i nice a such a jentl man. oh my gosh I'm so cunfused and very soon I going on a date with the other guy. help..
2007-08-08 10:16:17 · 24 answers · asked by Tina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go out with the other guys and compare him with your current boyfriend. think deeply who is better, not in looks, but in personality. don't feel confused, ppl constantly changes their relationship, to find someone right for them. so its normal, think everything will be good, stay calm, don't act nervous on the date, bcoz most girls feel nervous. good luck.
2007-08-08 10:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if your boyfriend is cheating on you and lies to you - leave him. That's no kind of relationship to be in. Plus - he shouldn't have to 'remember he has a girlfriend'. If he's not aware of that 24/7 - well you see where I'm going.
Secondly, if you're gonna go out w/the other guy - make sure you have broken up w/the current boyfriend. That's my advice at least.
2007-08-08 17:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by {}Chris{} 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what you've said, you bf sounds like a jerk. He lies and cheats on you? I would have dumped him already. Your friend seems like such a better choice. But if you don't go out with your friend, dump your bf anyways because he's bad for you!!
2007-08-08 17:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by Ellophante 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound dumb -- I think you actually deserve to be cheated on. Wake up girl and get a clue. Why would you want to be with somone who cheats on you? You are just going to develop a pattern of dating losers. Go out w/ the nice guy or be single until you realize you are going out w/ a cheater
2007-08-08 17:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by livin the dream 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your boyfriend he isn't worth it anyways he is cheating on you. If you cheat on him then you are just as bad and being dishonest with him about going on another date is up there on the list of things that are just as bad as what he has done. Dump your boyfriend, and you seem to be very young by your typing, why are you all tied up in a situation like this anyway? Stop messing with boys and just be a kid!! Good Luck!
2007-08-08 17:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by jennqt341 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..although your boyfriend is probably nice he has cheated on you and lied to you and you shouldnt have to deal with that, its not right, you should date the other guy you want to date and see how things go i mean your boyfriend obviously is looking at other girls so you should be able to do what you want, most guys cant handle staying with one girl i would have to say get rid of your boyfriend it will be hard but most of the time things dont change they try but it never works out fully. try the new guy you'll be much happier my dear.
2007-08-08 17:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by Christine R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y r u scared to cheat if the guy u r with now is cheating on u? i dnt get that. U r basically saying hey honey invite 10 other girls and we can all have sex together. I would dump that loser.
2007-08-08 17:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely brake up with your BF because he treats you bad anyway and take your chances with this new guy. You deserve better than someone who's going to cheat on you. So get rid of your BF.
2007-08-08 17:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by chelsea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid of your bf just on the principle that he cheats on you. then give yourself sometime if you really like the other guy because you do not want to compare the things he do or not do with the things the ex did. good luck
2007-08-08 17:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by chuckles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the first guy..go with the other guy and see what happens...A gentleman should always be considered first. not someone who lies and cheats dear..
2007-08-08 17:21:18 · answer #10 · answered by rickmeister 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋