we were half way through and her mom walked in then saw us and screamed and ran upstairs and has never looked at me since
2007-08-08 10:02:49 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it will take a while you broke her trust as did her daughter.
No parent wants to see their little girl getting it from some punk..
no matter how nice or great you think you are if they think of you having sex with their daughter now you are a punk.
You must resist your sexual urges in the daughters house and keep it outside her parents home.
treat their daughter like the princess they raised and respect their rules and their home..
it will take some time but if you are comitted to this girl fro the long haul you should have no problem taking the licks.
it can be okay if you make it better..
just be ready cause it will not happen overnight.
2007-08-08 10:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by chuckey is ill 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i recommend one of two things either break up with her or if you really want to be with your g/f then i would suggest talking to her. only tell her this if you really mean it just simply be honest but here are some pointers. talk about you and respecting her daughter and loving her and you 2 talked about it. also you could have the g/f with you backing you up when talking about this and talk to her tell her and be honest. be kind generous and even if she gets mad be polite and graceful fueling a fire don't make things better. oh and don't fear the mom fear her a bit but don't act like a little girl cause shes her mom. be honest straight forward hope for the best and don't do anything stupid or get mad or anything stay calm don't overreact and she is older so she is probably going to try to pass on some wisdom so listen and actually listen don't be thinking oh my god she's going to kill me. actually pay attention to what she says so when she asks you something or you should say something your not standing their looking at your feet like a dumbass wandering what the hell she is staring at your for. well anyway be nice as nice as humanly possible and she will probably respect you for that although she probably saw something she never wanted to see. but i would recommend communication that's the only things that's going to help at this point. and get it out of the way or be prepared for allot more awkward silences and weird looks and avoidance. good luck. oh and choose your words carefully!
2007-08-08 10:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by pan_clock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to make her. Its something thats between u and ur gf. However, if her parents are the kind that are strict and saw no-sex-till-marriage then thats way different. If thats the case, say "I'm sorry that I made that mistake. It won't happen till marriage."
The reason she isnt looking at u is cause she saw ur Mr. Thing and probably thought it was gross that she saw that. I mean, if I saw someone that wasnt my bf naked, I would probably do the same thing. Hope this helps.
2007-08-08 10:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, Thats Rough!
You Might Need To Talk To Her And Explain That You Love Your Girlfriend & You WERE (Or You Better Have Been!) Wearing Protection. Just Tell Her Your Sorry And Give Her Sometime To Cool Down!
2007-08-08 10:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by Cole Marie' 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't. All you can do is:
Not do that again in her house or while she is present.
Be nice and polite to both her and her daughter.
Be patient.
She may never forgive you. If she does, it may be a while. She probably has so much animosity toward you at this point that she will be looking at your every fault to fuel her negative thoughts toward you.
I can't say that you or your girlfriend made a good decision on the location of your session, either. Good luck with that one.
2007-08-08 10:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by Rich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it would be embarrasing to walk in on soneone while they were having sex, and yes it would be hard to look at you after that as well! The best way to talk to her is to wait a few hours or a few days then try again and see if you can talk to her mom!
2007-08-09 02:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by mickey_112404 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could stop having sex with her daughter, first. Second, you could apologize and let her know that you were doing it because you have a deep emotional connection with her daughter. If you don't have such a connection, just leave the situation alone, find a new girl, and get a hotel room next time.
2007-08-08 10:06:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your Girlfriends Mom will never forgive you, but she will eventually get over it. Your lucky her Dad hasn't gone after you yet. Good Luck. Live Life to the Fullest and Enjoy Every Minute of I.....
2007-08-08 11:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 09:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..if you have good intentions towards your girlfriend, meaning a long relationship that might come to marriage...tell her mother that. but for a mother to walk in and see her daughter with someone...it's kind of tramatic.
What are the ages as well? I'm sure she isn't too young to have sex or else the mother would have killed you then and there...but you'll just have to talk to her about it or have your girlfriend talk to her.
2007-08-08 10:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋