if so, explain why and the situation
2007-08-08 09:44:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is not a typical guy answer, but I think I regret every girl I've had sex with, because for me personally the relatively brief physical pleasure is not nearly enough to make it worth the worrying about how well I actually knew that girl and how many other guys she might of been with before me. Did she ever get exposed to an STD and maybe doesn't even know she has it. Also I always worried about pregnancy (I have a 6 month old son from the last time I had sex, and I absolutely can't stand his mother, that makes a difficult situation for all 3 of us).
If you want a meaningful relationship never have sex until you've had a chance to get to know the other person, and have something else to base the relationship on. Relationships based on sex usually end very badly, and go on for a lot longer than they should.
Before I have sex again I am going to make sure that the woman is someone who I know well and believe that I could spend the rest of my life with based on her personality, and also that the thought of her mothering my children doesn't make me cringe. But then again that's what I said before I got drunk and let my baby's mama jump on my lap and tempt me past the point where I could refuse.
Why the hell do my natural urges and instincts always get me in trouble!?!?!?!?!
2007-08-08 10:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Phillip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-17 08:17:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try not to be regretful of any mistake I ever made in life. That would be including who I sexed in the past. What good would that do? Can take it back. The best thing one can do is learn from your mistakes. If you had sex with someone and feel bad that you did, then you need to pretend that didn't happen and move on. That is assuming that you don't catch anything or a kid is involved.
2007-08-08 09:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg yes. For a number of reasons...
One was my best guy friend (we were close for many years), we were better off being friends, but he got married and we haven't talked since. I wish we had never had sex and remained friends.
One was because after our short relationship was over, he was a complete psycho.
One was just a bad mistake....
I only don't regret two...one of them I was in a relationship with for 4 years, the other is my husband.
2007-08-08 09:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by gbig_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I regret no having sex with few girls I liked
2007-08-08 09:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by hardy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he broke up with me, latter asked me over to talk about something that had happened at a dance. He said and did things that made me think he wanted to get back together. Three days latter I realized he just missed having sex with me.
Had I known we were not getting back together I would have just left and never talked to him again.
2007-08-08 09:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really...some experiences were 'forgettable' but I can't think of any that I regret...besides, they happened so what's the point of wishing they hadn't?
2007-08-08 09:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE OUT IN THIS WORLD THAT ATLEAST REGRET HAVING SEX WITH ATLEAST ONE PERSON. ALOT OF PEOPLE SE THAT AS A LEARNING EXPERIENCE. YOU LEARN FROM IT THEN YOU MOVE ON.
2007-08-08 09:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by scooby5_us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo sux for her up there. i have so regreted about three people i slept with. they were when i was wasted and they were my friends. it got weird and that is the reason i regret it.
2007-08-08 09:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by grunt's wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no.
Yes because I was only sixteen and I got pregnant. No because I wouldn't have my beautiful daughter. =]
2007-08-08 09:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋