I'm so embarrassed...?

Question

The guy, that I am IN LOVE w/, read a blog on my myspace that I wrote, that I forgot to set to private.& it was about him & he read it. He calls me today & he sounds serious. I said yeah I’m @ work but we can talk. Well…he proceeds to tell me that he read the blog & he was asking me questions about it. W/out him knowing (because I have gotten so good @ it) I started crying because I was SOOO embarrassed that he read it. The blog, pretty much, is exactly how he makes me feel & exactly how I feel about him-thing is, he doesn’t know how I feel about him & as he said, not me, he didn’t understand it because us girls are always confusing. True but it was pretty much in black & white. He was just wondering about it, we are fine, he is still my favorite person in the whole world, yes, I still love him, I’m just so embarrassed. I want to throw up. SO here’s my question, .should I tell him how I feel COMPLETELY? He wants me to tell him everything. Guys-would you rather know or just not know?

Answer 1

HONEY, now is a better time than EVER to tell him! he pretty much gets the hint but he may just want to hear it come from you to put your stamp on it, ya know? He may feel the same way about you....cause think about it...if he didn't like you just the same, he would avoid that conversation at all costs. He would act like he never read it and pray that you don't bring it up. Because he came to you wanting to hear more about it shows that he wants you to say it to him. This might be the opportunity he was waiting for to let you knoe he HE FEELS. He may have been afraid just like you were. DO IT GUUURRLL!!!!!

Answer 2

I wouldn't normally recommend you to be so up front with a guy, but if you try to deny it it will either look like you are lieing, or you are talking about another person. I think the best thing you can do in this case is just sey "hey, I'm really embarassed that you saw this so soon, but yes, this is how i feel about you, don't let it scare you, i'm not some kind of bunny boiler so if you don't feel the same it's cool with me" hopefully that might take the immediate pressure off him and make him think you are cool about it, in which case he is more likely to admit to mutual feelings. Good luck.

Answer 3

I'd rather know. It makes things less awkward because I don't have to guess what she's thinking. Honesty is the best policy. Here's a quote:

"The truth is like surgery: It hurts, but cures."

Answer 4

I'd definitely wanna know. And since he's asked, I think he deserves to know.