what do i do when i already have two kids by two different girls and im only 15?

Question

i have two baby girls, shannon and jaycee, and i love both of them very much. shannon is two months old and jaycee is a month old. they are beautiful because they both look like their moms. the girl who had shannon is 15 and her name is shelbi and jaycee's mom is 16 and her name is jaylen. i love both my babies and im going to be a good father because i never had one growing up and i still dont have one so im going to give them everything i never had. i just dont know how to handle their moms. they know about each other and don't like the fact that i have a baby with both of them but they except it. what should i do as we get older??

Answer 1

It's not a nice try.It is believeable if you say you have one daughter and you are...about 16.But you have posted the question that way "...and I'm only 15..." - that shows you seek people's freaky answers to your freaky question.Yes,I am really surprised how many people believed but if we assume that Americans are less smart than other countries...OK.But really,people from other countries won't believe such a thing.To make it work,try to say the girl is older or you ar eolder and the girl is younger.Also put some information about the parents,how do they accept the "fact" and that will make your question a really nice try.Good luck:)

Answer 2

First you need to stop having unprotected sex, and 2 you can't even work yet so how are you supporting them? Yes you will give them the emotional support you never got from your father, but do you think you have set a good example by sleeping with 2 different girls for them to both have babies 1 month apart. Your not winning any points with me, and it looks like you are heading down the same road as your father. The apple really didn't fall to far from the tree. Get responsible, and ready to work.

Answer 3

I would talk to both of these girls and try to convince them that your children would be way better off if you gave them up for adoption. The lot of you are barely out of diapers yourselves and have already doomed yourselves to lives of struggling to make ends meet week after week at dead end jobs. Your children have a chance for something better. These girls probably won't agree to it though, in which case you need to take some financial responsibility, and get a job.

Whatever you do though, DO NOT quit school. You can't give your children any kind of a future without an education. Get good grades in high school, and take your self down to community college and get an education. Even a 2 year associate in business can bring you a decent salary, and something to build on. These little girls deserve so much better than growing up on welfare.

Answer 4

Are you serious? how can you be a good dad when your only 15? You don't even have a job to support them. Yeah, Yeah, I know you love them very much. That's fine and dandy. What are you going to do in the future? Give up college, go work in a warehouse somewhere because you have no skills. You should have thought about that before you decided to take you pants off. I really hope that for the sake of those baby girls, that you get your life together and think about them. They are going to need to when they get older, they need you now. Please don't do anything that's going to cause you to father another child.

Answer 5

First MAN UP and grow up and get ready to be responsible for your actions and get a job AS OF YESTERDAY even if you are 15 years old.Start using condoms and make those two babies proud by being in their lives.You are worried about the wrong thing when it comes down to the mothers. The child support agency will be making sure you pay back medical bills,any money you owe for those kids expenses.For sure if the mother's are on any kind of assistance for the kids you will be paying money for some years.So saddle up and get ready to work your butt off to catch up.So keep your pants up and pay up.Don't think you are on easy street because of the mothers and how you get along with them things are not going to be easy once their load gets heavy.All of you have not a clue what is down the road for you and your kids and the baby mama drama down the road .Ask God to guide your life in a new direction so your kids will be taken care of.Good luck.

Answer 6

If this is really true... why is it that you feel the need to ask what you need to do, and what sort of answer are you actually looking for? Seems to me that you're probably the one disagreeing with every response, so anything anyone says will be the "wrong" thing to you.

If I say to get a job, you'll disagree. If I say to stop having sex, you'll disagree.

More than likely you are one of those people just having some fun on the internet, seeking attention. If you're not... well, sorry for thinking that. It's just that there are many people who do abuse Yahoo Answers just for kicks, and honestly, it's sometimes difficult to tell if someone is for real or not.

Answer 7

If you truly love these babies, the first thing you will do is STOP HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX!!!!!!! Second, get your mind wrapped around the idea that you will have to work very hard for the next 18 years. Develop a good work ethic. Get a part time job NOW. Finish school, then get a full time job and work work work work.

Answer 8

You do understand where these kids are coming from, right? Well, STOP DOING IT until you figure out a little thing called birth control. It is wonderful that you want to be a good dad to them both, Lord knows there aren't enough of them in the world, but you are too young to be a good anything right now. The moms are too young too, that's why their focus is on your babymama drama instead of raising their kids. Stop screwing up people's lives already.

Answer 9

first off start using birth control or don't have sex period
second tell the mom's to grow up and that you had babies by both of them and that there's nothing they can do about it
it's too late to worry now.
why at 15? go back to school and get your diploma so that you can get a good job at least a better one then without it

Answer 10

OMG! I really really hope you are lying! You obviously can't even take care of yourself and you are talking about taking care of two babies? You aren't even responsible enough to keep your stuff in your pants! And you aren't responsible enough to not get a girl pregnant! You and the mothers should be forced to give the baby's up for adoption, to homes that can provide for them! Because you say you are going to take care of them and give them everything! But guess what? It will be people like me, paying tax dollars so your baby's can have insurance, and food stamps, and government housing, and AFDC, and welfare! Do the right thing for once and step aside, give the baby up!

And everyone else can save your little thumbs down because you know I am right!