2 nights ago, I had an arguement with my gf so yesterday, she went to this Karaoke bar and then lunch with this "handsome" man. They are just friends, no holding hands or anything. She said that she hung out with him just to make me mad and told me if I did it again, she would hang out with this guy again.
Now, I don't mind if my gf has some male friends but I don't like the fact that she is threatening me about hanging out with him if I argue with her again.
I always think that a couple should respect one and another even if there is an arguement. Do you couple or anyone here does it to his or her love one?
2007-08-08 07:19:49 · 11 answers · asked by White Shooting Star of HK 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now, no offense to you at all. But I really think that you shouldn't be with this girl anymore. 1. because a relationship isn't about threatening the other person to do something if they agrue...etc. 2. if she's going to always go with this guy when you two argue who knows what she might do with him. I think you should dump this girl and find someone who respects you more. There is no respect from her if she is going to do this everytime something bad happens. What she should do is talk to you instead of running off with someone else. Dump her. You'll find someone who respects you more. I promise. I hope that helps. <3
2007-08-08 07:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by Amelia G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO she is a ***** i wouldnt do that to my crush and we arent even going out we just like each other so i respect the fact that he might get a little mad if i flirt considering we are like a couple but not so i try not to flirt and we are not going out so yeah your gf does not respect you or care for you from the way she is acting drop her!!
2007-08-08 14:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by Avaria 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no thats out of the question in my relationships. If the person i was with threatened me, i really wouldnt take it, i'd just tell them that its really immature and if they really dont want to make an efford to make the relationship work then i'd end it. there is really no reason why she did that unless you got caught with another girl. Talk to her nicely, if she continues with the if we get into another argument i'll go with the guy friend thing, tell her that no relationship goes on without argument. Every couple has hundreds of arguments in relationships. So tell her to grow up and deal with arguments in a diff. way.
2007-08-08 14:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude that is total crap. You must lay down the law and man up. If you don't she will not respect you. If you let her know it is not cool to hang out with other men it might even turn her on a little. or the the Godfather version....."You could be a man"
2007-08-08 14:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by Danny K 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, she really shouldnt be doing this to you. If it is your fault and you start the arguments over stupid things then she might just be overreacting a bit. But if there are serious problems in your relationship that you are argueing about then things probably need to end before she and her ''Male friend'' become more than just friends.
2007-08-08 14:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anne 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WATCH OUT!!!! alchol related infidelity is REAL!! you gotta remember females do two things 1. lie and 2. seek attention, dump her she is going to end up sleeping with him to make you mad, you have a spitefull women, your ideas about respecting your relationship are right and she is going to be trouble-the type that will make the two of you fight if one of you is weak minded
2007-08-08 14:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Using another person to I guess threaten another is no way to go about a relationship. If either one of yall is reallyhaving problems you should just talk about it. I say cut this girl off is this is how she's going to get back at you. This is all childs play.
2007-08-08 14:24:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's not respecting you at all. She's being really immature. She is trying to get your attention, but she's going about it the wrong way. No one should treat their significant other like this. That's horrible. I really wouldn't put up with that. And, yes, you are right. She shouldn't be threatening you with someone. That's wrong. I wouldn't put up with that.
2007-08-08 16:30:54 · answer #8 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend your girlfriend is giving you the s h it test. This is where woman will test you and see how you react. Now I don’t know how you reacted but the best advice is not get worked up over it and let her know that if she does that again she will find herself single. I don’t think it’s ok to porously make you jealous. In addition to testing you, she is playing head games. If you want to fight fire with fire be my guest, but really who is to say she won’t say something along the lines of, I slept with him to make you mad. I am not saying that it will get to that point, but it sounds like she fights dirty. So the best defense is a good offense in this case. If you really want to deal with that then that’s your bag, but really I wouldn’t stand for it, she is trying to test you as a man, and history has proven to us that it’s not wise for woman to do that to men. Hope this helps.
-Ty
2007-08-08 14:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by Tyler C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi!!
We all get angry or say something we shouldn't have, but if she truly loved you, she would be understanding and most of all wouldn't put you in that situation.
If she really loved you a women would die before going out with someone that would hurt you in any way.
You deserve better.
Hope U'll be OK.
Neville
2007-08-08 14:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by neville_ram 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋