How long would it take for you to get bored of a relationship...?

Question

...if your partner didn't feel ready to have sex with you?

Days? Weeks? Months? Until marriage?

I'm not really interested in religious angles on this, but go on, bombard me anyway.

...and why?

Hey folks, thanks for all the personal advice. But this is not about me or my relationship, I'm just curious to see how long other people would wait.

Answer 1

if it was a strong and loving relationship then i would be patiant, but if you only want sone thing casual them move right along

Answer 2

Relationships aren't all about sex. Sometimes you have to be friends with someone before you make the move into the sexual intimacy phase. If you feel you are ready to take it to the next level you can make the first move. However if your partner isn't ready then you may be refused. How would that make you feel? If you aren't getting what you need from him/her and it's been a while, a few months say, then maybe you should move on to pastures new.

Answer 3

If you can get bored just because there's no sex, then you shouldn't be with that person. When you're truly in love with someone, there are so many more components to the relationship than just sex. Honestly, how else could people be best friends for years and years and years when they're not having sex??

Answer 4

I'm not going to be bored with someone if I am not having sex with them. I don't believe in sex before marriage, but I understand some people don't agree with that. I hope that people have more in a relationship than sex. You can have a relationship with sex. Many people do it and they are doing just fine.

Answer 5

Most relationships aren't all about sex if they are healthy. They are about living a well rounded life...Just how many hours out of 24 does one participate in sex? Not enough to make it the focus of one's relationship another, that's for sure.

Life and relationships are stimulated by outside interests, common ground in beliefs and values.

If you liked a girl a great deal, were 6 months into a relationship and she still didn't feel comfortable having sex, do you believe that indicates you're wasting your time? -Because if you do, you really aren't into her or a sincere relationship - that's for sure!

Grace

Answer 6

lol well i have religious angles but i would never force them on anyone lol

so if you wanna hear my religious angles then email me anytime

so now to your question i personally think i get bored at about 4 to 5 months but i dont have sex until marriage lol and i like to be bored it means you have a good steady relationship. it may get boring sometimes but i would rather try to fix boredom over some other relationship problems that most couples have

i mean you can always find exciting activities to do
it may get you two closer

Answer 7

Making love is an important part of amy relationship. The problem may be that it is viewed as having sex by one or both partners....which will eventually lead to a dead end.

Answer 8

It would depend on the woman and the quality of the relationship, but I certainly wouldn't wait until we were married. If she just wanted to be sure I really liked her then probably a couple of months.

Answer 9

6 months

Answer 10

Well, i'm a virgin, and because i dont have sex, I end up breaking up with a lot of guys, because they cheat. It lasts about 5 or 6 months. it's not like i'm wating till i get married, i'm just waiting for the right guy.

Answer 11

If I started seeing someone and they didn't have sex with me after a month, I'd leave them, I'm 22, a very sexual person, and if someone holds back on the sex, its just playing games