I felt the need to go for the gusto and show someone i loved them but i think i scared her away and now i feel that i lost maybe the best thing that ever happend to me in my life why is love so hard
2007-08-08 07:16:48 · 15 answers · asked by clarkzila 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So you told someone how you feel about them.......right. They took it the way they took it and now you might have lost her.
It's not that love is hard its just that sometimes we get a little carried away in the moment and others either aren't expecting it or don't feel the same way and don't know how to deal with it.
If this is something thats meant to be then it will be, understand? Its not hard to figure this out really. Why would you want to be with someone anyone that you love that doesn't love you back.
And remember if you want to resolve things with other people in your life you have to talk to them..........communication between two people who want to spend the rest of there lives together is pretty damn important don't you think.....So get on the phone and talk to her and ask her whats going on. This is your life to and you kind of want to know whats going on with this other person and yourself don't ya. Well, what are you waiting for, move it.
2007-08-08 07:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by MLJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi clark,
Do you fish with dynamite?
Be subtle. If you enjoy a woman's company, being around her, talking with her, let it develop naturally.
I don't know the specific situation, but from what you said, you were getting along just fine with someone and a short time later you feel you lost her. This is a pretty drastic swing.
The next time you are involved with a woman, let it develop at a pace you are BOTH comfortable with. Even if you feel an impulse to make some huge gesture, consider how it would look to her. Will it be a scary moment she can't get past? Will it fast forward a relationship she is still getting use to?
Consider you and the woman are probably not in exactly the same place (emotionally and mentally) at exactly the same time.
good luck and slow down ~
2007-08-08 07:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by yoak 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because not a one of us fully understand it. Most of us look in the wrong places for it. And when we thin kwe have fought that person to love we find out they lied some where about who they realy are. So they turn out to be nothing like we though. Be easier if everyone was truthfull and up front about who they are and what they want in the special person.
2007-08-08 07:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by rani 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love isnt hard its very easy but only if u have that special someone and u cant just fall in love with anyone it has to be the person u are meant to be with for a long time or forever and also just relax and dont try to find love just let it go to u like it did to me
2007-08-08 07:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by Darko 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love is a sticky situation my friend but the more time you take to get to know somebody before rushing into things then the easier love will be. If she was really important to you then you can still get her back. Charm her the way you charmed her in the beginning. You only live once.
2007-08-08 07:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
EVERYTHING takes time. You can't find love. You discover love.
Start off by looking for a friend, a companion. If it works out this person will love you and you her.
Coming on too strong will drive anybody away.
2007-08-08 07:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by Lighthouse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not going to be as easy as picking out what underwear to wear today!! your looking for THE ONE!! your other half!! the love of your life!! the one person that you want to spend the rest of your life with!!! give it some time and when the moments right (normally when you least expect it) you'll find them!!!
2007-08-08 07:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by hunkyscutie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and the girl will both know if and or when yall fall in love. Let it find you though, and don't try and find it because love does fade eventually.
2007-08-08 07:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because it's just like life and life is hard, love is hard to find because there is one person who is your soulmate and not everybody finds them, you should try and get that girl back and if she doesn't take you back maybe it just wasn't meant to be.
2007-08-08 07:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by TimeTruth 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
love is hard because when you know you have it, you cherish it. And its somethign we all strive for, and i guess its one of those things that everyone desires. love is hard to find cause in today's world its so wanted.
2007-08-08 07:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋