Now I'm no super stud, nor am I a virgin, but I don't ever recall really asking a woman to have sex.
My experience is when the moment feels right, ya make a move, and carry it out if they want, or back off if they don't. This, I guess could be non-spoken consent, but I wanna know who has actually asked "Do you wanna have sex?", or similar phrase as your 'first time'with that person.
2007-08-08 06:00:33 · 10 answers · asked by Benjamin W 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've asked & I've been asked.........
I've also done the nonspoken thing too, I guess it depends on the person... hmmmmm
2007-08-08 06:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by mac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd get the consent form in a written and not a verbal contract. People can always renege on an oral contract by stating that what they said was not true. If you have it in writing and they have signed the consent form, then it's valid and they can't go back on their word. Works good in any court of law and bed room ethics
2007-08-08 22:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by Ink Corporate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't remember with any certainly if I've ever been asked the first time I had sex with someone, or not...
I would consider it odd as the body language asking is more appealing..."Do you want to have sex?" takes all the passion/heat out and pretty much makes it a sterile, emotionless encounter.
2007-08-08 13:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first time no, I didn't ask and neither did he, we kind of just went for it. I've been asked, but I don't ever remember asking anyone to have sex, I guess it's like you said unspoken consent.
2007-08-08 13:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by luvsthepink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it's been awhile between me and my husband I'll ask something on those lines but never have I said that 2 anyone else. Ur right, it's just an unspoken thing when people decide 2 have sex.
2007-08-08 13:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by Misty D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consent is exactly what you said. unspoken. who the hell ASKS for sex. someone desperate i guess. but seriously, if she is in her right mind and has sex with you then it was consentual. if she says no and fights you or if shes drunk or under another influence then it's not.
2007-08-08 13:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first time I do remember saying I want to have sex with you do you want me and he said yes I always ask dont you
2007-08-08 13:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Poet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been asked (and consented!), but to tell you the truth, most of it has been done -- as you say -- through non-verbal communication.
2007-08-08 13:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by Andy K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First time no........ but if i want it then yes i will ask
2007-08-08 13:04:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
without consent is rape!
2007-08-08 13:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by R.A. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋