He likes ME?!?

Question

Ok I have asked several quesitions on this site about whether or not this boy i like liked me back...turns out he does. I recently went with my best friend (her brother is the one i like) on their family vacation. We were at a amusment park and my best friend doesnt like the rides, so her brother and i went on the rides alone. It was wet and rainy that whole day. I was in this line for a rollercoaster for like an hour with him and her. (my best friend would leave us right before we got onto the ride so she wouldnt have to wait the whole time alone) She left and RIGHT before we could get onto the rollercoaster it started POURING and they had to shut it down untill it stopped. So her brother and i decided to wait it out. I told him i was cold so he let me put my arms around him, and he started playing with my hair, and kind of stroking my arm and when i looked up at him he KISSED me! hehe, my first kiss!! Well now we are bf and gf, and i have some worries i was wondering if i could get

some help with. I want to be a good gf. but this is my first relationship. How do i go about being a good gf, and not being too clingy but at the same time, not giving him so much space and make him think i dont want to be with him? Please help, and advice would do. Also how do I come to terms that he actually likes me, I have really low self esteem, and this is all new for me to actually have a guy like me. I dont want my self doubt to ruin this for me.

btw im 16 and he's 18

Answer 1

yes

Answer 2

You only have self doubt if you think you have something wrong 1st thing to do find anything you feel is wrong and correct it after that you will feel like a million dollar bill straight out of the mint(by that i mean figure out whats buggin you and think why its buggin you and how to get it to stop buggin you by yourself) then with the self doubt gone you wont have any worries and dont think too much about what you could do wrong the more you consider the more a reality it will become

good luck from a guy whose hoping to be as lucky as your bf soon

Answer 3

Your questions are very mature for a girl who has her first boyfriend. So, I would suggest you tap that maturity in your dealings with him. You will get all kinds of suggestions, but I think the main thing is to show respect and interest in really getting to know each other and what the other person thinks and what they hope for their future. This does not mean talking about marriage, just your hopes and dreams about life in general. Do not be afraid to say no and do not expect him to txt or call you back immediately...do not show insecurity. Show confidence and a good sense of humor.

Answer 4

No good advice can be given for a first relationship. This is something you must feel out for yourself. Everyone messes it up the first time, so treat it as a learning experience and be grateful if it lasts more than a month.

Follow your instincts.

Answer 5

You need to have your own life outside of him, doing things that you like. #1, this will occupy your time so you're not always thinking of him, and #2, you will have stuff to talk about when you hang out with him.

A good gauge is how often you call him vs he calls you. If you're always calling him, that means you need to fill up your life more so you have less free time. Shoot for about 50-50.

Answer 6

hmmm.. you know i wish you the best and all... but "experience" takes living, stop asking people here what you should do, and go and have some fun w/ your BF... enjoy time w/ him and make some memories... a first love is sweet... and when and if it ends will be the biggest pain you ever feel... good luck, and hope it lasts :0)

Answer 7

Act like you would normally be yourself and about being clingy or too un clingy just notice when u r givin him to much attention or too little just watch yourself and how u react to things

Answer 8

Syphilis???? What????

Get too involved too early. Probably.

Just take it slow. It is very likely that you won't be spending you entire life with this guy, so don't give him the whole tomato.

You have a lot to learn about life, boys and growing up still.

You have to ask yourself: could I spend the rest of my life with this person before you give up too much.

Answer 9

Howw Kute!!! kayyy. so im guessing you guys are gf/bf. so you want to be a good gf. well at school let him hang out with his friends some of the time but also make sure you hang out with him. dont get mad at him every time he talks to a girl[[he would be going out with her if he liked her]] and call him like once a day maybe even less.......you want him to call you so when you call and if he doesn't answer leave a message but dont call back over and over again.dont get mad if he doesn't call back right away. since its your best friends brotherr he probley has seen you when you looked like crapp[[like if you spent the night and woke up in the mourning]] dont always try to impress him he likes you the way you are.....dont change!!!dont forget about your friend........she was your friend when you guys werent going out and she always will be....so hang ou twith both of them.......if youre at their house dont ignore either one!!!
Hope i helped!!! ♥

Answer 10

ok number 1 dont let him have all his way u dont want to go to far without thinking about wat ur doing. number 2 dont call him every min but let him call u, if he dosent u call him but make sure ur not the one calling him all the time u dont want to seem like ur clingey. o yah congratz ur first bf, does ur mom now about him? make sure she does befor she finds out on her own. number 3 make sure u do have alone time with him but make sure and i mean make sure hes a good bf u dont want him to force u into soming thing u dont want to do. number 4 just relax dont be scared of ur bf. so thats all the advise i have so bye!!!!

Answer 11

Just act natural. I promise there is a guy out there that will love you exactly the way you are. It could be him.