Jehovah's Witnesses?#2?

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Hi JW's,
last night I posted a question. After my question went on the fritz...I could'nt add detail and just gave up and went to sleep very sad.
At the age of 18 I was inlove with another fellow brother from the English congregation. Months after we met he moved to Mexico to help an english congregation, we lost communication.
This was a long distance relationship as a result, this brother turned out to be a liar about many things.

He was very clever and very romantic but also a liar.

This was a very hard situation for me to get away from and ever since then I've been coping with feelings of lonliness and regret.
I've worked on moving on but out of the blue I have sad days when other day when I face even more problems.
Such as loneliness and isolation. I have been known to be very outgoing and friendly...but I don't feel that way...I feel that I hide my feelings very well.
What can I do to fill in a void?

Answer 1

Well, long distant dating can be hard and things change. Obviously, he was torn between two interests, you and serving were the need was great. Is it truly a bad thing in Jehovah's eyes that the other option won? Those things do happen.

I don't know how old you are now, but move on. If you really want to get married, persistantly pray about it and see what happens. Don't let another person control your happiness. Get busy doing things you should be doing and put the whole matter behind you.

You need to be happy with yourself to find happiness with another person. Being single has it's benefits and blessings also.

Answer 2

Hate all men,we suck....But what would you do without us.....Sorry for ya kid!!!Heartbreak is a tough one and the first real one is the worst.Keep writing and getting peoples input even if it doesn't help the ache it passes time.........Now for a question for ya!What's up with the watch tower?In other beliefs it's a magick building at the center of the astral world and is shared by different beings watching over their people and the peoples interests and growth.I've asked a couple of elders about this and they say I need saved.Wich does not answer the question,so if ya feel like doing something would you try to get an answer and post it.I have the scriptures and back copies of W.T.But can't get any info at the source.I was thinking that after you guys(grls) study for years they go we got a secret,we are really masons and eastern stars on the down low.Anyway good luck with the heart thing,I believe time is the only fix but maybe being busy might help.....D.Heemer

Answer 3

Sorry to hear about that. Im not a Jehovah's Witness but I like what they teach.

One thing that kept me far from them is that I looked up to them as perfect, but later noticed some of them are far from perfect. They are just human, some are trying to follow God the best they can, but they are human. I think about Judas, one of the apostels of Jesus. Judas saw Jesus perform all the miracles, but Judas betrayed Jesus. So, in the Jehovah's Witnesses there might be many Judases also. Just because you go to the meetings does not mean a thing. I knew an elder that was disfellowshipped for comitting adultery.

The point is don't look at the people, they are imperfect. But their teachings are amazing. If we all did what the Bible teaches we will all be perfect, but we are human and fall short.

This guy you fell in love with may or may not be a Jehovah's Witness at the moment. But it does not matter. You will find another person in your life guaranteed. He is out there.

Some people put a bad name to Jehovah's Witnesses and Jehovah does not like that. Forget about this guy but don't forget about Jehovah. Good luck.

Answer 4

That void you are trying to fill can only be filled by the person that created you. (God) When most people start realizing this void is wearing on them, turn to other relationships, drugs, alcohol, even books for studying etc...What you have to realize is that God loves you and wants to fill that void in your life with joy and happiness.

I would check into the Jehovah's Witnesses a little more. My big question with them is, How many are getting into heaven, ok and how many of you guys are there now....right so where do i fit in the line?

Answer 5

Every religion needs logic in how to deal with everyday situations. Some may just say to give it up to God, Jehovah or Allah etc.You could study psychology and it's place in understanding human nature. It sounds very clinical but has it's own way in revealing the humanity,animal or beast within. How will you do in the coming or present tribulation? Some things like what you have gone through just make us stronger anyway.

Answer 6

Pray.
Read the bible.
Engage in the ministry.

Work to develop a good Christian personality yourself.

Learn more:
http://watchtower.org/e/20041208/article_01.htm

Answer 7

sounds to me what is really going on is that you are suffering from pangs of bieng ugly.

he left you because you are chopped. drop some weight and get some plastic surgery to fix your face and all will be fine.