my girlfriend had sex with this skinny black guy from my work before i sarted seeing her. She said she only wanted to talk w/ someone, not be in a relationship with the guy. Any way the second time he comes over to the house she says he was pullin off her pants trying to get sex. Saying things like it will be alright. She said she kept saying she didnt want to do it. Somehow he ends up doing it. She sauid 5 minutes no orgasm he leaves and goes home. Now, the next weekend and 5 after that he came over every friday and all they did was have sex. She tells me that she is and was ashamed of what she was doing and the whole time they were having sex she never once had an orgasm or nothin. It ended she said when he called her one night drunk and the nice act turned into the ghetto little guy he was. He said she was to demanding and she said he was a liar and a manipulator. Now what woman who is forsed so have sex lets him in again and again for two months. and gives him oral sex.
2007-08-08 03:47:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i asked her over and over again why in the world she would go down on him on several occassions if she didnt want to have sex with him
2007-08-08 03:56:02 · update #1
She constanly says i dont know what i was thinking. Now, from my perspective i have said the same thing. Maybe afer a very drunken one night stand. But to do it over and over again. What the hell
2007-08-08 03:57:27 · update #2
i did ask if she was cohersed into doing it the seconfd time and every other time besides the first and she says no. That would mean she wanted it, right? I then asked her if she really only wanted to be friends with her. She replied yes. I said ok then what can you tell me about thim. She couldnt tell me a damn thing. Also do you think that he ended it or she ended it because of what it turned into. And how is she going to stand there and say she didnt have any pleasure out of it. No oragasms. And keep doing it. I always said if ur not having sex to conceive than your doing it for fun
2007-08-08 04:16:55 · update #3
that biatch is lying, im sry but she's just plain cheating on you, and if you dont get her in check and dump her chocolate eating whore bound @$$, she'll continue to cheat
2007-08-08 03:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by c(:>3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is lying. Man can't have sex without any permission of woman unless he raped her. Looks like she wanted to have sex with him and also don't want to leave you. You deserve more better. You can ask her once that what does she want. Gave her a choice of him or you. And Try to be over at the house that day when this guy suppose to come. If you love her then I am sorry Hon she is not good for you. You seems like a good man. So move on you will find more better. If a woman is not faithful to you in a relationship you can't expect anything else from her also.
2007-08-08 03:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
EEK, hon. Here's the thing that worries me...for *seven straight weekends*, your gf let this guy come over and coerce her into having sex with him, even though she claims that she "just wanted to talk to someone." There's something seriously wrong with that: I'm not sure why she would have continued to let him come over and have sex with her for that long if she truly wasn't interested.
I don't think that she's necessarily lying to you, but I do think that she has some issues with self-esteem and/or saying "no" to guys.
To be completely honest, I think that this sounds like a pretty messed-up situation that you'd be better off getting away from.
2007-08-08 03:58:26 · answer #3 · answered by wyldberry880 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I think deep down you already know that she's feeding you a crock of sh*t. There is no way she would let him back over if he forced himself on her. And if she did this with him, you can bet this isn't her first time, there have been others. Drop her, get over her, and get tested because she might give you something that will take a long time to get over if you know what I mean.
2007-08-08 03:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by lorrierae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would say she is lying. If she was forced to have sex the first time she would have called the police and had him arrested not let him come back again and again.
2007-08-08 03:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a new girl that one is definitly a whore. She didnt need to let him in and didnt need to have sex with him .. If she didnt want to and he forced her then it is called RAPE and she should have went to the police. Find a girl who is gonnna love you and only you. You deserve alot better than that so move on tell her to hit the road. Trust your heart this one isnt the one for you,
2007-08-08 03:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by superthunda 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not sure I would say she is lying..sounds like she has told the truth and in great detail. Doesn't sound like she was forced into anything to me. Sounds like he played her for a piece and she wanted more.
2007-08-08 04:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by CINDY J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he forced her to do it the first time, did he force her the subsequent times? I think she's just stringing you along. Obviously, there is more between this guy & her she is not admitting to.
2007-08-08 04:09:21 · answer #8 · answered by Hmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry not trying to be mean sounds sluty sorry dump the chick hope you find some one who is woman enough to say i was horney as hell need some ew gross
2007-08-08 03:52:29 · answer #9 · answered by cynthia t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes - sounds very screwed up to me. A lot of bitterness, and lot of hard feelings.
2007-08-08 03:50:46 · answer #10 · answered by BK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋