im starting to feel like i want to die . i am 20 but yet i cant get the feeling out of my head.little things get me down i just cant get myself out of this slump what the hell can i do? Life sucksssss.......:,-( Everythingh sucksssssss
2007-08-08 03:45:47 · 21 answers · asked by yav 1 in Travel ➔ Europe (Continental) ➔ Turkey
my mom is busy with her new boyfriend, my dad busy with his mistress. don't tell me about family.
2007-08-08 03:57:53 · update #1
The problem is that you accept everyones opinion as a fact and you try to adjust and fit in to their desired position. You have to learn to be straightforward and explain people your situation and don't expect them to love you. Those who love you for who you are, are the ones you will respect from now on. I really feel bad seeing a person like you who feels like the world is crumbling on top of your head. Just respect others as they respect you.
This online community is 50% BS, as you already know.
2007-08-08 06:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Beemer 4 · 2⤊ 4⤋
keep the faith, happy days r on the way and will come real soon...read "the secret" and actually u dont even read that , coz u already know about the patience and gratefullness. Hanibal in dedigi gibi savasa devam... Kaldi ki, emin ol o dusunduklerin senin gibi cesur bir kiza ait olmayan dusunceler, gucu kendinde kesfet ve mucadele et. Maalesef ki, her sey her zaman yolunda gitmiyor be Selin... Umarim tez vakitte mutluluga erisirsin...
2007-08-08 17:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by AllsTar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been there and I know where you're coming from. It might seem that you feel left out and everyone's life seem to fall into place except yours. That "slump" is so hard to overcome, it actually took me a year to get over it. I'd wake up hoping to sleep again when I thought of my problems. It comes back now and then but I try to busy myself with a lot of things to take my mind off of it. Life isn't a bed of roses, But one thing I've learned is to move past things and prioritize yourself, do things that would make you feel good about living again and don't take too much stock into what others want from you in order to make their own lives comfortable.
One more thing is, don't look too much to others for help because as good or as bad as their intentions are, only you can help yourself. Good Luck....
2007-08-08 12:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
Why depressed, don't think about what your parents are doing, just be relaxed make some creative hobbies, involve yourself into that totally, Be friendly with others in open heart, tell your problem to him or her, Be always in a good mood, go for long **** try to see beauty of nature, realise what is your life is, realise what efforts your parents, yourself, your society etc had taken to grow you up from childhood to your youthfulness, is all that goes waste with your act like this.> Life is very bright always, don't make it silly by your narrow mindedness. Be optimistic, you are brave and able to fight all ill & will. Just think how better you are from other, think about those who are mentally retarded, who are handicapped. Think that you are still better from other, God has given you so much courage to fight with all these. Once don't feel guilty about your parents affair, as they are already surrounded by these events and with God grace they will surely comes out of that. Remember, the Ball is in the big plaint plate, with its slope towards you, so ball will return to your side in any way. so please be happy, enjoy as much as you can.
2007-08-08 11:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Selin abla please don't feel that way. If you're feeling really down then tell your mom/dad. I'm sure they'll understand how you feel. In the meantime, go hang out with some friends and get some fresh air to clear your thoughts. That always helps me :-)
My friend showed me this video a month ago. It's a spoof of Daniel Radcliffe's Equus that's REALLY funny. Maybe this will cheer you up!
http://youtube.com/watch?v=3mdDLMQGEyA
2007-08-08 11:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by Qu'est ce que tu penses? 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
See...how many people love you and that is only here, I am sure there are many more! Imagine them all crying at your funeral...even I would from far away! If you can bring so much happiness here you can do it right around the corner too. Now go outside to the park and look at flowers until you can smile then sit on a bench and look at children and, if you can, go and play with them! Life is often a struggle so just shout FIGHTING, FIGHTING and go on!
2007-08-08 11:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by Selena 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well,if they choose to life their life like that it is not your fault...you have to be stronger than them..you see that is wrong ...find something else that has sense in your life..i am sure you have friends, and other parts of your family...lot of people are not happy with their parents..world has a lot of issues..but we dont live in a perfect world and we have only one life in front of us..so why not make it best of it...it is not worth of crying over something you can not change..try to change yourself and enjoy little things in life
2007-08-08 13:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by Marina S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
seli dont worry, try to go out of home or travel ,cause the little happy things that u live are sooo important and try to distract u with sports.
bye
take care
2007-08-08 21:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by Max65 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh get over yourself... if it's that bad, find some profesional help. Everybody has sh!t to go through, so stop. And if you really can't take it, well, do what you gotta do, but that's what cowards do, strong people suffer thru bad times. Remember, after every night comes a morning.
2007-08-08 15:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by viktorphs 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sorry I must write Turkhish.
6 ayaÄından 4 'ü kopmuÅ bir böcek bile yaÅamak için kalan ayaklarıyla kaçıp hayatını kurtarmaya çalıÅırken sen ne hakla böyle birÅey yazabiliyorsun ?
Hemen gidip bir karınca buluyorsun ve 10 dakka inceliyorsun. Cezalısın :)
2007-08-08 10:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by hanibal 5 · 8⤊ 2⤋