for his house keys,but has not shown up yet for it. iam hurt because i would love to know what went wrong but he is not talking.he even ask me if i need back any stuff from his house that i bought him
2007-08-08 03:34:40 · 20 answers · asked by ann-marie m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is some reason...either he has found out something that you did that was hidden and he feels betrayed, or HE has done something that he feels guilty of and knows he has betrayed you and it is easier for him to be angry at you than it is himself.
A good friend of mine had her boyfriend start treating her like crap and called off their relationship within a period of a month after being together for several years, only to find out he was cheating on her with another girl, but didn't have the ba!!s to be straight about it and made her feel like she had done something wrong.
2007-08-08 03:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. well usually, when a guy breaks up with a girl for "no apparent reason at all" it usually means that there may be another girl on the side. It's just a guy's excuse to break up with you before he hurts you. Or at least until he gets caught between the two of you. You might want to consider this as an option as well. Or, like you said he's just a bitter person alltogether. And about that stuff at his house, just forget about it. I think that is so petty of women to go back and take the thins they bought their exes. You're not getting any money back for any of that stuff that you got him. Unless you have the reciept, i suggest you just leave it there and keep moving right along. Guys are idiots and somepeole have to learn that the hard way. And remember not to stress yourself out about thewhole thing either. Karma is real and it will come back to haunt him sooner or later yano? So even if you never get that explaination you want, jus know that there is something and someone better out there for you
2007-08-08 03:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by Bianca A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is his attitude something that happened recently or has it been coming on for a while? This about what may have caused the bitterness. I would strongly suggest you press him for the answer and even speak with his parents and close friends if you have that kind of relationship with them. There's got to be more to the situation and possibly he's not completely made up his mind about the breakup since he hasn't gotten the housekey back from you. GL with your efforts.
2007-08-08 03:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by 65sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMMMM......good question, bitter and angry sounds like he thinks you might have done something? If not, maybe someone lied to him? If he doesn't want to talk to you then you can't make him maybe there is NO reason and he doesn't know how to tell you that? I'm not saying I think you did something but I automatically thought, he thinks your cheating, or you've maybe changed how you act towards him? Or maybe he feels you have. You could try to talk to him again, but if he doesn't want to I would just leave him alone as hard as that will be
2007-08-08 04:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is out, and let him go---there's not much you can do, he has something else going and when someone has wronged you--you may not always get an explanation or know why.
Try to put this behind you, give him his stuff, but....you bought the house??? Tell him to get his stuff out of your house and dont take a lot of time about this....he sounds like he might take you to the cleaners.
2007-08-08 03:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by skyward 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to see him in person and ask him why. You need to be in person so that you can see his body actions and facial expressions.
However, if he hasn't come to get his keys yet he may just be taking some time to cool off. Just keep trying him, and use tears if you have to.
2007-08-08 03:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by patton19150 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, I don't know how to say this but, your boyfriend has found someone else. Any guy that jets out like taht is seeing someone else. do your detective work. and get the locks changed
2007-08-08 03:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe write a letter and ask what went wrong
I always hate it when somebody leaves you and won't even say why
maybe next time pick someone who can and does express himself more
2007-08-08 03:39:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he knows something, what did you do?
anyway
you guys are in a relationship, you have the right to know what went wrong, so ask.
2007-08-08 03:40:15 · answer #9 · answered by helen helen helen helen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be a reason. But he is not willing to tell you. If he no longer wants to be with you. Let him go.
2007-08-08 03:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by Red Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋