It would be my very first date with the girl i like but i don't know what to do, pls help me, from the basics to the most terrible thing that could happen.
2007-08-08 02:14:27 · 11 answers · asked by alvizmiguel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do:
Be open, confident, and honest.
A gentleman (opens doors,ect.)
Be funny.
Make eye contact and listen.
Ask questions to get to know her and show interest in the answers.
Hint toward another date long before you ask for one. ("I'm having a great time with you")
Do not:
Be a jerk.
Talk a lot about yourself unless she asks.
Cut her off.
Check out another girl.
Be shy.
Get too personal (sexual questions)
2007-08-08 02:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by TheMadChemist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you two should kiss right away so that way the whole date you won't be wondering if you're at least going to get a kiss. During the date you MUST talk about the size of your penis because girls love that stuff. Also while you're talking to her make sure that you always stare at her breasts because girls love that. Plus try to squeeze them when ever you have a chance. At the end of the date when you drop her off tell her that you have to use the restroom and when you do leave the door open so she can come in and see your penis, this always turns girls on. If you do all this then it's 100% gauranteed you will get some before the night is over.
2007-08-08 09:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by K F 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, don't talk about yourself too much, Show interest in her and her likes and dislikes, that in itself will help you to carry on a conversation. Ask her what her talents are and what her interests are, and where she sees herself in 5 yrs or even 10 years down the road. This will also show you if your compatible or have alot in common. See what kinds of foods she likes and have her to dinner at one of those types of restaurants. Let her know that she look fine, and you love her smile, or her hair, or her eyes, or what ever it is that attracts you to her. Be polite, have manners, be a gentlemen and open doors for her, if she doesnt mind that. some do. and let the rest come natural. be yourself.
2007-08-08 09:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do compliment the way she looks hair clothes ect
but make it convincing dont say it cus you feel you have to
Do pay attention to what she is saying
Try and make her laugh
Keep ypur eyes on her dont talk to your dinner she wont like that
dont fart and burp dont try and kiss her unless you think she is ok with it
Ask lots of questions
Answer the questions she asks you
dont forget to smile
And dont look at your watch or keep checking ya phone
these are things i always do when i am nervous but it looks really bad .
2007-08-08 09:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, dont SHOW that you are nervous. Laugh, smile and be happy.
2nd. It's always good to make eye contact. Flirt a bit but dont go too far. remember, it's your first date.
Lastly, just be cool and try not to run out of things to talk about. It's always good to have topics in your head beforehand. If not, ask her about well.. her. the awkwardness will die off.
2007-08-08 09:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by ..... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do be clean and neat.
Do have good manners (open the door for her!)
Don't let her pay on the first date.
Don't try to grope her or get too physical (unless she obviously wants you to or initiates it).
Do have good breath.
Do try to do something romantic (walk around somewhere holding hands or something).
Do be yourself and Don't try to be someone you are not! She'll know if you are being fake, and if she doesn't like you for who you are then she doesn't deserve to be with you! :-)
2007-08-08 09:18:58 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out and do something that you enjoy and makes you happy so that she sees who you really are. Honestly dont do something you know she hates though. Be yourself, and maybe let her know how you feel (without coming on too strong). I believe you already passed the hard part. You got the first date.
2007-08-08 09:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by Frizzel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a gentleman OK, no sex ok, be on time dress nice and smell good do not over do this smell thing ok, open the doors for her, be yourself, be honest, use mouth wash, clean nails, clean hair. Wish you the best.
2007-08-08 09:21:16 · answer #8 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and be yourself. First dates are always awkward and we know this.
2007-08-08 09:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great answers!! Also - be a gentleman and treat her like a lady.
2007-08-08 09:28:31 · answer #10 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋