We love each other for nearly 6 years. Last year we became more closed after both our families knows bout us. I care and loved him so much. We do kiss and sometimes romance. He like me play with his. Things as couples was fine. He do love me too but just dont understand why he changed. He too excited with his chat friends. He start to hide with me and meet the girls. He knew that i trusted him so much. My instict showed me that he is doing things behind me. I started to investigate and got to know so much stories. He is basically flirting behing me.He started this like a year ago. He chat and send phone messages very often. He never told them that he got gf. He talk bout romance to them. But he never say he love to any of them. I caught him and spoke to him. He said that he will change. But he repeated again after 6 months. Now i totally mad and nearly be crazy. I told him to just end the relationship. Now he telling that he want marry me n only love me. I wish i am a psychic. so hurt!
2007-08-08 01:51:52 · 6 answers · asked by peace g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look i went through dis 3 times i kept on givin' my ex chances n i gave em 3 chances n i feel u cuz im still hurt n even tho i hurts a lot u have 2 break up wit' em n yeah u will feel hurt n cry but unless u want 2 marry a guy who u know iz goin' 2 keep flirtin' n duin' crap behind ur back den u should break up wit' em n like i said it iz gone hurt cuz it hurt me badly n im still hurt n i broke up wit' em 4 or 5 months ago n it still hurtz cuz i got deeply n luv so if u wanna find a better men break up wit' da stupid jerk dats duin' all dat crap behind ur back n find a better men remember he iznt da only one in dis planet n believe me ur gone find a better men kk n hope dis helps l8r bye
2007-08-08 02:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by r3b3l_ch!k 4 3va 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not marry! Marriage is not an assurance, it will just add a lot more hurt and frustrations in your part if he will be the same within the bounds of marriage, try to give it a little more test of time and distance.......
If he can do this with you just around, how much more if you are far?
2007-08-08 01:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by blackpetal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy is obviously a loser and if they do it once trust me from personal experience, they'll do it over and over again, marriage isn't going to change any o that I'd just tell him, look I'm sorry but my lifelong pratner can't be a skanky backstabbing flirt, and then leave and never look back
2007-08-08 01:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to move on, do you really need this crap, you have already learned from some lies, now dump the jerk and go out and have some fun.
2007-08-08 01:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay with him, that will only give him the chance to do it again. He will think that he can do it over and over if you keep forgiving him.
2007-08-08 01:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by catch22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on he is not worth you.. you are worth so much more ..... someone is out there for you and will treat you properly.. good luck you deserve the best
2007-08-08 01:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by phantom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋