i have sum bad news which is going to cause a huge row in my family and cause them to be very upset with me.............................they dont know yet but i have to tel them today...........any advice.................sigh...............
2007-08-07 21:28:18 · 10 answers · asked by surfergirl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
oh guys wat can i say thank you for your kind words...........love ya al..........im whelling up here............
2007-08-07 21:54:28 · update #1
well depends on what it is.. but remember .. they will only react cause its hurts them more than u... but they really do love u.. so hang in there {}
2007-08-07 21:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by who ?? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U need to tell them all together, and make them listen to whatever it is u have to tell them. dont go to them individually or it will cause a big scene as if u have the gossip grapevine like we have with our family it gets around pretty quick and everyone adds their spin on it and by the time u tell your side it is not the truth they heard and so on and so on... so whatever it is that u need to tell them get everyone together or at least whoever can get together and just flat out say what needs to be said...
2007-08-08 10:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by THE UK WILDCAT FAMILY 10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you know what they say: "the truth shall set you free", even though it might be harder now but over time they'll deal with it,of course it depends on how bad the NEWS really are. like my granny always says "you'll never know, until you know", if you catch my drift. BEST OF LUCK!
2007-08-08 04:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by IT Dude 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to speak out the truth but always in soft and gentle words.
2007-08-08 04:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by sv 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wht ever u do dont start with so i have very bad news that will get they worried and all worked up and it will b harder to tell them trust me
this coming from my exeriences
2007-08-08 20:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by gray angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be understanding about their feelings and try to break the new gently.
2007-08-08 04:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have to tell them, then just do it. maybe tell one person first (whoever you trust the most) and theyll help break the news to the rest.
2007-08-08 04:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by dodger805 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just give it to em straight
don't try to tell them to sit down first or anything
they'll just get worked up more
2007-08-08 04:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by Scuba Steve 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be honest be strong hold your temper. be true to you. you do fine good luck
2007-08-08 04:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by ladywolf 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
with love, truth, respect and humility!
2007-08-08 04:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by Terisina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋