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2007-08-07 20:26:09 · 16 answers · asked by Shiju 1 in Family & Relationships Family

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Each family is diffrent from another so it depends on the members they can answer if succesfull or not as they only know if they r saying sucessful than what r they going through none of the ones must be totally happy being a part of joint family as today no person has self tolerence patience,respect they have to compromise a lot and this makes them unhappy some have a big EGO which is a destroyer of peace sooner or later members divide and from those who r able to sustain joint family long enough r probably staying on unhappy unwilling basis as they might not have any choice so conclusion is not sucessful till end can be for some time unless all try to respect and accept thier differences and have ahabbit of forgivig and forgetting all foulsthen only love has a chance to blossom and when love does it stays forever and the most impt factor that keeps it going is comprimise and learning to care for another entity apart from ur ownself gods greatest gift is family Father and mother in little you thats what family means without parents in our heart we cannot become a joint family or say our family family it can be said only another house

2007-08-08 05:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Joint family is always a success, that is because each one is helpful to the other. Though we live in pocket families now a days, we always are happy if we get a extra helping hand, either in the form of a maid or a cook or a driver. In a joint family all the works are shared by all still you can have a maid or a cook or a driver.

In a pocket family sometimes we are forced to depend on those helpers of ours. But in a joint family even if they dont come for a day we tend to share our works. So joint family is always successful

2007-08-09 17:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by rashmee 3 · 0 0

In earlier days, a joint family meant something where parents, their grownup sons with their wives and families stayed together-there was virtually no difference between siblings and cousins. Nowadays, with sizes of family dwindling and nucleus family setting in,parents staying with one son and his family is itself termed a joint family by many.
Now the success of this depends more on the adjustment capacity of the elders. [unlike olden days]. There was always a generation gap, but now intolerance is seen in a very big way. Youngsters have a relatively less role though however a lot depends on the upbringing. Elders make huge demands and youngsters protest in many cases and elders themselves opt for their independence. [in India--where elders are financially self reliant]

2007-08-07 21:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by artqueen 3 · 0 0

Yes joint family helps in many ways, saving money, have many people in bad times to help us but the only problem starts when kids get married and the daughter-in-law it wives start fighting. All has to leave under one roof and has to be govern buy honest reliable and dependable older family member. That it will smooth sailing

2007-08-09 07:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

In India we call it as HUF which means Hindu Undivided Family consisiting of large members of family headed by a person 'Kartha' (manager) of the family, who is the elderly person of the family, who holds the entire property in his name and controls it. But now a days the importance of HUF is decreasing giving rise to Nuclear or single family consisiting of parents and children only, becoz, the old tradition is suitable for agrarian families but due to various jobs and economic conditions the joint families are divided into small families. Apart from this there are many socio-economic reasons which proposes the small families.

2007-08-07 20:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by Samar 2 · 0 0

See its completely depends on the family members ...how much understanding is their in the family members..how one cope with each other...how much love,devotion n dedication is their among them....n above all their shld be respect for each other in the family....n yes if all these things are there then joint family is successful 100%.

2007-08-09 13:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

it depends upon our mindset.we should be more adjustable in such a situation of living as a joint family .it has its own plus and minus.its up to you to take whether plus or minus.if you or the members in the family are not adjustable its better to form a nuclear family rather than creating problems and facing it in our daily life.

2007-08-08 22:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by vrenuga d 1 · 0 0

I am in a joint family in Fredericksburg. There is Aaron, Evan, Terry, Christa, Sean, MacKenzie,Tyler and me. 1/2 of the family lives in Virginia Beach and the other 1/2 lives in Fredericksburg. We only see eachother on weekends but share the same grandpa, that's me. Raging success, everyone is free to come and go as they please and we may disagree on many things but share the same rooflines.

2007-08-07 20:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by green3ch 6 · 1 0

My various relatives are in both joint as well as nuclear families & all are satisfied & successful. Mobole phones have eliminated the distances & all are in constant contacts. It all depends on adjustments, co-operation, understanding , attitude & personnel management.

2007-08-07 20:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

go for a joint family, if it will success or not then you will know the answer of the same.

2007-08-07 22:50:01 · answer #10 · answered by abanti 1 · 0 0

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