everybody on this site seems so innocent and naive, are you?

Question

i was raped in a boys school by the older boys i haave been in jail, i have been guilty of rape and not caught i did all kinds of drugs and strange sex i have stolen and i have done so much and to hear the poblems here seem phoney and political correct. you sound like people form a pleasant proper tv sit com. or a nice little movie. just me huh?

any "real" people or is it me that isn't "real." please don't be trite.

Answer 1

Hey look!: I went through the whole of the drugs experience & lost my family, friends, and career as a result. 3 new cars I wrote off as a result of drink/drugs, and I've never had a new car I didn't write off within 4 years. I could have bought a new house with the wasted $$$! At school I was bullied, until I got bigger. After being jailed several times, and still not learning from it, I finally managed to give them all up, and have been completely clean for 2 years. This (helping people from many different countries with their mental health problems) is part of my rehabilitation. It helps build my self esteem, and, together with building my website, also acts as occupational therapy, filling the huge void left by the absence of drugs (which I hope to avoid for the rest of my life!). Many of the others have worse tales to tell: I strongly doubt that there are many innocents here.

Answer 2

Many who have suffered sexual abuse go on later in life to sexually abuse others. It seems to me that you are still very angry, and probably suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder as well. See those subjects, and there is something in the websites in the child sex abuse, concerning the effect on males, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris on pages 4, 6, and 20. Find a therapist; preferably one who uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or who has previous experience successfully treating people with prior sexual abuse (read page 1). Learn to forgive (I'm not suggesting you forget) those who wronged you, and ultimately yourself, as well, otherwise it will hold your recovery back. I've done many things that I wish I hadn't; and I suppose most of us have, too, but I can't change the person I was, but I can try to be a better one, in future.

Answer 3

Life is full of positives as well as negatives

Even for those of us who have been harmed in life

There is a choice to do what is good, or to do harm.

Those who know me deeply, feel I should write my life story,

That it would make quite a soap-opera.

Still, I prefer to live my life on the legal side of the law.

Answer 4

I would rather be 'innocent and niave' than cruel and heartless. I do my best not to hurt others to the pint of hurting myself. Sounds like you've had a lot of trauma in your life that you need to work through still. Good luck.

Answer 5

you're raped before so that's the scare you can never forget...so you raped others and took drugs and did strange sex...you're sickening right now...but it sounds you didn't need any help...so why did you come here?...to scorn off at people, huh!...you don't need to do that...many people here suffered too...not only you....

Answer 6

I think some people prefer to keep that level of "issues" to themselves when online. I know I do...doesn't make us phony or innocent or naive (trust me), just more private.

Answer 7

Have you tried counseling? You have alot of pent up anger, bud. I'm glad you are sharing! Can I help?

Answer 8

ya, "my hair doesnt look good" doesnt seem like a real problem

Answer 9

No.