this is the same for his dad and his family is always struggling with money. My guy has great dreams, but always seems to get short-changed. What should i do? Any ideas.
2007-08-07 18:09:19 · 7 answers · asked by jenski 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is the same for his dad and his family is always struggling with money. My guy has great dreams, but always seems to get short-changed. What should i do? Any ideas. I am not trying to be shallow, i just cant build a future with this can I?
2007-08-07 18:37:09 · update #1
If he cant be what you need then why be with him, he sounds like he has a case of the lazes and you making excuses for him isn't helping anything... tell him to get off his a.ss and work a long term job or you'll just have to go and get a real man... which you should do anyways...
2007-08-07 18:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's hopeless at holding money or keeping a job, it sounds like he's got impulsiveness issues, which can turn to addictive behavior leading up to drug/alcohol problems and narcissistic abuser behaviors. The whole reason for dating a guy is to find out how he's going to be as a future mate, and it looks like you know enough about him and his family to see a warning flag or two. I'd say trade him in for somebody more respectful and stable. Look for a guy in your local construction worker's union that works like crazy, doesn't have time to date, but is living alone.
2007-08-07 18:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 11:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once was looked upon that way. It took me a while to find my niche. Now, I am well off. And much better off that shallow women fell by the wayside. Money means nothing. You are shallow.
"A working class hero is something to be... You're all fuc-king peasants as far as I can see" -John Lennon
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=njG7p6CSbCU
2007-08-07 18:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say if he cant get a job and has trouble making money then you should leave him and get a guy who has a good job and makes money and has his life set up but if you don't want to leave him try and help him
2007-08-07 18:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fine to see him and care about him but don't marry him or have any intentions of building a future with him. Him and his family will bleed you dry and take every ounce of goodness from you.
2007-08-07 18:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You needs budgeting. You need a bookkeepper. Get a long list of what you really need. Do some math.
2007-08-07 18:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by Seph2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋