I don't want to be a gold digger but it turns out my new girlfriend's mom is famous. so is her step-dad. when i found out i was like oh holy **** dude!!! then i thought she could get me into acting or singing and i could live my dream!!! after i finally broke and told my best friend he told me i was a gold digger. WHAT??? i didnt know she was rich went i first went out with her and now im scared that the rumor is going to spread through school and even thou she goes to a different school she will eventually find out. so what do i say to my friend and my girlfriend? will she understand that im not out for her money, even thou 1,000 high school kids think they know better?
2007-08-07 17:50:53 · 11 answers · asked by Mr.H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do i help my career without her thinking im compleatly muching off her?
2007-08-07 19:37:35 · update #1
I'm going to give you a star for this question--you know, just because you are so proud of it! LOL! ;-)
If you aren't a gold digger, don't worry about it. She won't see you as one.
About your career, play it cool...Turn up the music and sing to her when you are in the car together.
Have a party and set up karaoke as one of the activities and charades as another.
Get involved in drama and choir in your school and invite her to see you in the productions.
Eventually, you may be able to talk to her parents about how they got started in the business. Being frank is always a risk--but sometimes well worth it.
2007-08-07 21:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by oooooolala! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What counts as gold digger? If a individual is staying with a wealthy individual only for the cash, that is a gold digger. It's dangerous since it is mendacity. What if a individual is staying with a wealthy individual and also you occur to be deficient and the opposite individual occurs to be wealthy. Is that gold digging too? I consider so long as 2 humans are joyful, it isn't important who has what quantity of money. I dated a man who I rather appreciated earlier than. He wasn't wealthy however I was once rather deficient on the time. He purchased me stuff however it does not imply that is the cause I was once with him. He was once regularly there for me. I was once rather touched that his entire loved ones permitted me too. I'm now not deficient anymore, however I would not overlook that he took care of me while I rather wanted it. Money is solely cash. If you would support out any person you like, I do not see a main issue whether or not it is guys or ladies.
2016-09-05 11:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A gold digger is someone that just goes after rich people and since you didn't know she was rich then you are not a gold digger. Just don't listen to them and continue your relationship with you girl if the rumor goes around you will know how strong your relationship.
2007-08-07 17:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jules 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Weeellll....even though like her for who she is, as evidenced by the fact that you asked her out before you knew......out of respect for her I would back off about asking her for contacts. I bet people do all the time!
One of the things that might help is if she saw you pursuing your career on your own, without her help. If she sees you go to audition after audition, taking classes etc. - she might be impressed by all of your hard work and relay that to her parents (who are the ones with the connections, not her!) and they may think of you the next time they have a role come up.
If she finds out....I mean, you aren't a gold digger per se...but it's disappointing that this is all you can think about, i.e. using your girlfriend for your career, now that you have this knowledge.
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2007-08-07 19:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by fearlabave 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I suggest that you speak to her before the rumors spread. Tell her that you were just saying that it might be nice if her family helped you with your career, when your friend took the whole thing wrong and said that he told you that he thought you were a gold digger. Tell her that your feelings were hurt when he said that. Ask her if she thinks that you should discontinue your friendship with him, or just talk to him about it.
2007-08-07 18:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask her for any favors to help you become a singer or an actor and you won't be a gold digger. Just continue the relationship the way it has been going and forget who her parents are.
2007-08-07 18:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by ophirhodji 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who are the parents? You aren't a gold digger.
2007-08-07 17:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet most guys that date her would have that happen to them. Just be honest and tell her that you've been hearing some rumors around school about yourself etc., and it really bothers you. See how she reacts, and go from there. Don't jump the gun, and don't ignore it.
2007-08-07 17:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by StarGazer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like you like her but the connections ar an added benefit. dont talk about that kind of stuff with her. i bet every person always wants to talk about her famous parents and she'd be relieved to meet a guy interested in HER.
show interest in HER and she'll bestow u with the gift of being connected to her famous family
2007-08-07 17:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
u in deep sh*t dude!! just tell her the truth she shuld understand, and if not...kiss those deams goodbye! LOL good luck
2007-08-07 17:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋