girl problems?

Question

ok so there this girl that i like but she does'nt know about it and shes a year older than me so any ideas 4 me 2 tell her4 how i feel without embarassing her or me.plzzzzzz!!!!!!!! i need help cuz i only have till the dance 2morrow? thanks

i already asked my friends and none of their "brilliant" ideas worked

Answer 1

DON'T tell her that you like her. This will not make her feel the same way for you and she will think you are totally lame.

Tease her, say things to her that give her validation and then take it away- (if you are talking to her...) "You know you are kind of cute... too bad you aren't my type." Things like this make her chase you. Make sure you have something to say immediately following that. If she asks you what your type is COMPLETELY IGNORE the question and comment on something cool you saw on TV the other day.

As you get better at this an notice her attraction for you, you can also push her away and then pull her back in (the reverse). You know you seemed kind of nerdy when I first met you, but now that I get to know you, you are actually kind of cool.

No compliments without taking something away!

Learning to get a girl attracted to you takes some time. Don't go and do something stupid just because theres a dance tomorrow. Its a dance, not your last day on earth.

Also, read:

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Answer 2

Flirt with her. Tease her, smile at her, do nice things for her, etc. Once you start giving her attention, she's pay more notice to you. Be confident and funny. It'll show her that you know how to have a good time. Then she'll want to have fun too, so she'll want to go with you to the dance.

Answer 3

Dance with her at the dance. Just ask her. If you don't want to embarrass her, make it casual. Ask her when she's by herself. Talk to her. Get to know her. Just spending time and finding out about her will probably let her know how you feel. Good Luck!

Answer 4

well play it cool. girls i know dont really like somone so desperate. ask her to the dance like" i just thought utd be kewl for us to go 2gether." or if u feel uncomfortable doing that. ask a groupd of friends and invite her. that should be a clear sign right there. then at the dance, you could really get to know her. and invite her to an after party or something. see if she flirts with you and make sure to ask her to atleast on dance.

Answer 5

Just tell her you like her. Don't beat around the bush. If she likes you she'll say yes and if she don't probably she'll say no.

Say something like : I really like you and I was wondering if you'd go to the dance with me?

Maybe take her out to dinner and get flowers for her to if possible!!!!!!

Answer 6

A closed mouth won't get fed. There is only one answer, bite the bullet and ask. Don't practice, lines don't work and you'll only trip over them. rejection is part of life. Ask or you will spend the rest of your life asking "what if?"

Answer 7

Just tell her how you feel, its the best thing. If you try to beat around the bush it just makes you look foolish. Be confident, but not cocky and your chances will be better.

Answer 8

look i'm a girl and if there's 1 thing a girl knows its that its not what a guy says when asking her out its about them having the courage to 'em out

Answer 9

Just be real suttle about things. go with flow and talk to her alone. Kind of do small little hints to her. It will come to ya. Good luck:)

Answer 10

okay, truth is girls like confidence. Tell her you want to take her out. Tell her she is cute and it would be ashamed for such a beautiful thing sitting at home with nothing to do.