i try to tell him he needs take care of his sister not hit her and when i tell him not to do something he tells me i dont have to listen to you i only listen to my dad. His dad is not a lot of help either he talks to me in a way that his son thinks it okay. no help at all. can someone out there please help me URGENTLY!! My name is Claudia Geronimo my neighbor Carla is typing this for me cause i only speak spanish. I live in Los Angeles, California.
2007-08-07 17:11:21 · 9 answers · asked by chika confudida 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well I'm 15 and i used to hit my little sister as well, Try getting him into sport's or try to find him a good hobby so he uses his time on that it should help a lot......... hope i helped
And if you take away what he already likes doing it will most likely make him madder and get worse i know because i did
2007-08-07 17:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by taddmcphearson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your son sounds scarey. You have let it go so long, that now he will be a burden to society. I say this because I have a nephew who was disrespectful to his mother, and now gets in trouble with the law, too. He needs a reality check, big time. I don't think you have what it takes to give it to him though. If he keeps hitting his sister he needs to be taken out of the home. She should not be made to endure his abuse. If you are brave enough for it, then find your voice. Speak up and tell him to behave himself! Get mad at him when he needs it! Take a frying pan to him, or what ever it takes for him to know you mean business. You sound too nice if you let him get away with hurting his sis, and talking disrespectfully to you. Where's your spine? Your courage may save him from a life in prison, or worse.
2007-08-07 17:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have an older brother who used to hit me all the time too. but he turned sixteen, and my mom found him a job and he plays sports and has a lot of friends. try keeping your sons mind on hobbies and activities he likes to do. maybe even talk to your husband about treating you better so the kids get good examples from you. and not bad examples on how to treat others.
2007-08-07 17:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 14 year old son should not have to take care of his little sister.. she is your child not yours.
Your son is learning to treat his little sister and you as he sees your husband treat you. Why would you continue to mate with such a man.. get your tubes tied.
Stand up and stop being a door mat.
2007-08-07 17:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take away your 15 year old's cell phone, computer time, video games, etc....and ground him until he learns to behave. He needs you to give him guidelines. Talk to him about how he is a man and he needs to protect his little sister, not hurt her. Be strong and firm and don't ever forget that you are in charge!
2007-08-07 17:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mary B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are allowing him to do this.
tell him that if he hits her again you will call the police. she shouldn't be hit because you can not control your son. and when he does it make that call.
do not allow him to abuse his sister or yourself.
2007-08-07 17:29:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to kick your husband's and your son's ass and let them both know you're not putting up with their shit.
2007-08-07 17:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you need to smack the shit out of your son and if that dosent work you need to put him in juvi your daughter doesnt deserve it
2007-08-07 18:20:58 · answer #8 · answered by nicole b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better show him he aint to big to get his ass beat and who is in charge
2007-08-07 17:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by breezzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋