My Dad....?

Question

I had a suicide attempt and then the state forced me into a mental hospital and I just got out and my they billed my dad who I am still in custody with and then when he got the billed he yelled at me and told me how much of a leech I how weak I was for trying to commit suicide and then he said that he wished I died because it would be cheaper for him....I feel so bad having my Dad say that to me but it makes me seem that I am at fault for his problems and that if I died life would be easyer for him...

Answer 1

say how sorry you are and he will forgive you one day hes just mentally stressed and money stressed!!!

Answer 2

Let me tell you some things and hear me well.

There are always people who are supposed to love you the most who bring you down the hardest. Don't appreciate you. Don't understand you and don't try to. But in all that, you have to appreciate you. Understand you. Obviously, if you attempted suicide, it was because you are going through some things that are so hard that you feel like your death would solve. But it won't. Your father, is not very sensitive. It seems to me as though, he has problems of his own that he really needs to deal with.

But don't you let him stab you in your heart like that and win. Don't let his words seep into you and take you back. Obviously, because you didn't succeed in the suicide attempt, you are here for a reason. Don't let that reason go in vain. You don't get to do life twice. So don't waste this one. Find a reason to smile. Even if it's a nice song on the radio or a pretty lady walking in Wal-Mart. Find a reason to smile. These moments in life are all we got. Don't let yours slip away.

Answer 3

No he is talking real stupid because it will cost him more to bury you. You or worth something to this world, other wise you would have succeeded. You keep your head high, get into a group and keep going forward. Also don't listen to the negative remark he made to you. If you have another family;y member to live with try that. Be safe and no more attempts on your life OK. like i said the big guy upstairs had a purpose for your life other wise you would have been succeeded. Take this a second chance at life and Enjoy!!!!!! everyday like it was your last. Peace

Answer 4

I'm sorry all this has happened to you.

Your dad is just angry, we humans say horrible things that we don't really mean when we're feeling like that. To try to kill oneself is quite a bad thing to do because you're not only hurting yourself, but every person around you. Do what you can to show him that all he's done to help you is worth it. Show gratefulness. Take advantage of this new opportunity you've been given to make the best out of the life you have. Believe me, if I were to kill myself every time my parents tell me horrible things I would've died a very long time ago. Be patient with him, just as he has probably been with you. I wish the best of luck and remember to make the best out of the crappish life you and half of the world have.

Peace!

Answer 5

Your dad has problems only another grown up can understand and that doesn't need to be a concern for kids. When you did what you did, it just added to the burden he already was facing. It got the best of him. I'll bet he feels bad now about it. You should try to get a job or do odd jobs and contribute to the home expenses. Don't ever do that again either.

Answer 6

Sounds like your dad is upset cuz you really racked up a debt and all for something so stupid. Suicide is for sissies!!!! And the wimps way out. Didn't anyone ever teach you that? Unless you have some horrible disease like AIDS, I'm sorry there is nothing so God awful going on in anyones life for them to go and try to kill themselves. Why don't you stop being a victim and get some mental help? That would be more reasonable and practical. In the mean time talk to your dad and let him know he hurt your feelings. I don't know what the basis was for your suicide attempt but it sounds like your dad is pretty ticked regardless.

**I have sympathy for the mentally ill, and for people who have serious issues. But I have no sympathy for people who try to commit suicide. I have a little brother like that, so yes I have room to talk!

Answer 7

what is your question? becuase you didn ask one?! or did you just want advice? well, my advice is to you that people say all kinds of things when they are well pi$$ed off like your dad seem to be about the bill he recieved but trust me he will get over it. Just when you see him in an okay mood ask him what you can do to help him pay that bill. Do chores around the house, babysit, offer to cut the nieghbors grass or clean the garage anything to make money and offer to help him. Dont feel bad about what he said. HE IS WRONG for saying that to you, it tottally isnt right sweetheart. but just keep your head up! listen to my advice. everyone says anything when they are mad, me, and even you im sure you yelled at one of your friends or siblings and said some pretty mean things when you didnt mean right? you were just upset. thats how your dad feels..he has soooo many bills to pay already and maybe he doesnt have the money to pay for your bill so hes just mad. trust me he will get over it. just stay out of his way and dont upset him anymore. life goes on. im sure he feels bad for saying it though even though he doesnt say it or show it because he knows hes wrong. But, dont try to kill yourself. thats not the answer to your problems, get some friends. find a hobby..join a sport..get a girlfriend..find someone who makes you happy and fall inlove with something you enjoy so you feel as though you have something to live for. You are here for a reason..if God didnt want you here, and you wernt meant to be here you wouldnt be here. take care good luck! keep your head up honey. its going to be okay. trust me.

Answer 8

Your Dad is a jerk. Try to be on your own. This will mean help from a professional person but I think if you are committed to the betterment of your life you can do it.

Answer 9

Thank God you are still alive!!! Your Dad is wrong. Keep seeing someone - like out patient counseling. Tell them about what happened and what your Dad has said to you. See if they can help you find a safer place to live.

Answer 10

omg ur question almost made me cry i am so sorry that you were upset enough to try to kill urself the 1st time and im sorry ur dad does not understand how ur feelng

life is a precious gift from god and i hope that u find the strength to hold onto it with all of your might

dont give up on ur father he probably just is frightened by ur actions, give him a chance im sure he loves you so much

Answer 11

Your dad was way out of line for saying that. I know that it is hard but you need to talk to another trusted adult about this. i don't think that your dad is fit to care for you. He isn't even trying to help you become stable! You deserved to be loved unconditionally...whether or not you cause problems. If you don't have trusted adult to talk to, talk to a school counselor. If that isn't feasible, you need to call Social Services. Please, don't even consider killing yourself. You deserve so much better. Don't let anyone make you feel like it be better if you were dead. Please, get help from someone, it's not acceptable for you dad to be doing this to you. I hope it works out for you.