Should I be mad about this?

Question

so before me and my boyfriend were leaving his house, normally he makes me like dance before he unlocks his car door for me to get in. Like just a little ditsy dance. Nothing like sexy or whatever. Well.. I didn't feel like it today. I got in the car and I don't know how it got into this. I know I said you wont ever see me dance good and what not. Althought I can. Hes like.. It actually makes me mad when you dont dance. like to songs and what not. I'm really shy somtimes... and i dont like to right? Then he said any other girl would and then like 5 sec later he said for their boyfriend. Thats like putting me down... don't you think? He knows I'm shy. so what do you think? I'm actually pissed about it and sad. Honestly if he doesn't like how i am then why doesnt he find someone he can get whatever he wants from? what the **** i thought.

Answer 1

smile give him a little dance when he gets out lock the doors & make him do a little dance before letting him in after a while he will get the idea & stop asking you this may take a while him to get the clue there a little slow sometimes

Answer 2

Tell ya what I am outgoing and I still don't dance. Not at parties or anything, except when I am EXTREMELY drunk. Or if im being silly youll see me goofing and doing a weird dancce. My fiance respects that. he understands that not every1 is that comfortable with themselves and if he wants some one to continually dance for him maybe he should be dating an exotic dancer not a normal girl he didn't pick up from the club.

Answer 3

because if he hasn't done it by now its because he wants u , he want u to be the one dancing for him and i guess he like it so maybe u should try to open up more an that side and show him that u can dance if u really wan t him show him that it is more to that car dance than he realize, girl show him that u can b sexy when u want to and u know how to move your body but still have fun with it

Answer 4

You have to dance before getting into the car? Seriously? Don't you kind of see something wrong with this?

Answer 5

Y would he have u dance b4 u get into the car? That seems weird to me. You shouldnt be mad u should b laughing lol. Hes stupid. U need a new bf! Sry.

good luck to you! <3

Answer 6

Dumb his cocky ***. He seems to think you're a toy he can keep around and wind up to amuse himself. Seriously think about the relationship, demand some respect and tell him:
"Well, if you're looking at other girls like that, I guess you don't really want or need me either." And start walking away. If he cares, he'll stop you. Otherwise, you've made your point and you get to walk away with dignity.

Show em what a spine looks like, girl.

Answer 7

id b mad,but he probably said that becuase he doesnt know ur shy.i dont think he's putting you down,he just understand why u dont do it.let him know,and maybe he'll understand.u cant be that mad,he just doesnt know why u didnt want to do it today.explain it 2 him.but on the other hand,u dont have to listen to him.he's gonna think he can control u if you keep on doin this lil dance thing.he needs SERIOUS help....u need to find a NORMAL bf.

Answer 8

hunny get out now, lol, hes a freak..... call me old fashioned but i like to open the car door for my woman, if he wants u to do this every time then hes got some serious issues and yes hes thinking about himself..... p.s. how old are the both of you, lol,

Answer 9

To me this sounds like maybe he's trying to be manipulative. by saying other girls would do it for their bfs--he's not respecting what you want. Don't let him treat you this way. Watch out for those red flags nad be careful.

Answer 10

Over dancing.......seriously?