Do you select your friends based on how physically attractive they are?

Question

Or maybe who are at the same level as you? In other words, are you friends with people who might be labeled unattractive or ugly?

Before you start criticizing me and/or the question, just know that it comes from a friendless (& yes, physically unattractive) person.

Answer 1

Well, I usually approach people that seem friendly and somewhat attractive to my eyes. It really depends, but when someone who is smiling or appears like they're easy to talk to, then I'd def. want them as my friends. I would try to make eye contact and smile at that person and if s/he does the same thing back, I would start saying 'hi.'

P.S. I believe you are an attractive person with low self esteem even though I have never seen or met you! Remember that you are a 'catch' and beauty is HIGHLY subjective so don't be so negative about yourself. You are unique looking and I love dark, curly hair (based on your avatar)

Answer 2

NO, NEVER!! I choose my friends based on some common interest. Some were in classes with me. Some I met through various groups or activities we shared. People make friends based on personalities, character traits, and common interests. I care about who people are on the inside, not the outside. Hey, if you're a good person I'll be your friend. Feel free to contact me. Nobody should be friendless or believe that they can't have good friends!

Answer 3

I don't. I am one of those people that realize that looks are not everything and that there is a person with feelings inside of every body that is walking around.

Some of my best friends, others consider to be unattractive, but I don't care because those friends are the ones that I can always count on!!

Beauty is more than skin deep, my dear!

Answer 4

No. I would onlychoose persons I would surround myself by personality. I could care else what you look like as long as you are good to me. Attractive people generally have a "better then thou" attitude and are only into themselves. I cannot stand that. I think "friend" is the key word. A true friend is someone who will be there for you thru thick and thin. It's not the number but the quality. If it helps. I only have one person I would consider a true friend. I don't need to search for more then that. If someone else crosses my path and shows me a true friendship, then I will increase the number to 2.

Hope this helps.

Answer 5

I don't think physical attraction to your friends is a good thing in the first place. But no, seriously, it doesn't matter. I make friends based on the friendship, not their nose job, or their highlights. And you shouldn't be concerned if you are someone who has very few friends, because the fewer you have, the less you have to worry about. It's better to have one or two really close friends or family than one hundred people who will turn on you in an instant.

Answer 6

who u hang out with is part of ur reputation. I would never chose a friend who is tottaly ugly. Now im gorges so i have to chose a friend who is uglier but not ugly. They just have to be like me and think like me. Im very popular and evry one knows me so hardly i pick and chose they come naturaly. But never chose a friend who would make u look ugly or uglier (a cutter person than u)

U have low self asteam. Just remeber the way u think of u is da way other will patray u

Answer 7

Sometimes I do based my friend on how physically attractive they are but most ppl i know are average... i go for friends how are more beautiful inside that they outside... they don't play you like some of the attractive friends

Answer 8

Looks are only skin deep.Beauty comes from within.
I have all kinds of friends and I treasure each one of them.I love them for who they are,not what they are.
To me,no one is ugly or unattractive.We all have good qualities even though our looks may not be outstanding.We just have to learn to play up our best assets and always be ourselves.

Answer 9

I can make friends with like anyone. So, no. It depends on the person. I'm friends with cheerleaders to math geeks. So, just go up and look for people. They won't come to you, so you go to them.

Answer 10

friends are who meet alot to you. not on looks alone. people can be beautiful on the outside but yet so ugly on the inside, vise versa, look" if your friend makes you feel good about who they are, and what u mean to them thats what counts the most. . . so, " (answer) ......... people are beautiful in every way, and so are you. . never be ashamed on looks alone, ,