we have been talking about 4 months a good time i say everything was great .took our time were honest and everything between.but now i get a message that he ran into his ex gf and shes wants to get back with him. i cant force love or make him stay with me,i wouldnt do that. but how do i cope with this and not make a big thing out of this. all i want is to be friends if i cant have him not much is it? im not a bad person i try so hard to make things work but i supposed running into a ex is easy then starting something new and unsure.
2007-08-07 14:25:42 · 4 answers · asked by Megan M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be there for him. Don't try to be possessive of him. Just continue being you. He'll be honest with you througout the process. However, just because the ex suggests it doesn't mean he'll take the bait. They broke up for a reason. He hasn't forgotten.
2007-08-07 15:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by troubledone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act as though it doesn't matter, walk with your head up and looking good (sometimes extra-good) with confidence, if he really likes you then he'll make another move and if he does then string his *** along until you get a guarantee that the next time he won't drop you like a bad habit!
2007-08-15 17:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can assure you that you will not want to be friends it would be extremely hard and its not worth it. just leave him alone and find someone for you. i mean its not worth trying and you will end up not liking him at all sooner or later.
2007-08-14 00:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let life live
2007-08-15 17:39:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋