2007-08-07 13:25:42 · 13 answers · asked by Erika M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think so. What happens if your "one true love" dies before you get the chance to meet? Would that mean that you'd have to wonder the rest of your life never knowing what true love is? I think love is what you make and with whom you make it. Some people are lucky enough to get it right the first time around where they love hard and at that time in their life they meet someone who is truly compatible with their needs/wants. However, others are lucky in a different way, where they get to love hard, learn a lesson, and then get another chance(s) to love again. Each time for them at that point in life IS still a true love who teaches another lesson. Love, to me, is a very complicated subject and feeling, but hopefully this can give a different perspective.
2007-08-15 08:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know i got this quote from this movie though i cant remember the title..it goes something like this, in this world theres 3 kind of love 1.true love 2.real love and 3.love...true love is someone tht no matter how far u go no matter how many people u met, theres always him/her in the background as the measurement standard to all the others. If ur with ur true love, dont ever let him/her go..But if he/she left, u knew theres a part of u tht just died..thts when u go to the next one tht is real love, someone whom u usually settled with and if tht doesnt work then u turn to love..im not sure whether this is true or not but i do believe in it..
2007-08-07 14:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie Y 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes i do i am proof. i was a mess until i met the wonderful man. we were only friends at first and he helped me with all my problems from family to personal even with other boyfriends. and one summer we went to go to taco bell(first date lol) and we talked for like 2 hrs and got real personal with each other and when he dropped me off that night i got a good long hug and a little kiss on the cheek. we have been together since then and married for 2 yrs and 3 months. he is my everything i dont know what i would do without him. we have fun doing everything lol from washing dishes and doing laundry to going out to eat and to the movies we just enjoy each others company. we never get bored of each other, which is what everyone told me. also the sex life is still great and people also talk about how that goes bad after your married and well of the bad stuff ain't true and all the good stuff is true and better than it sounds. ladies or men if you haven't found that right person keep looking i promise they are out there, and its definitely worth the searching and waiting.
♥good luck♥
2007-08-15 12:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Jessica♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I believe there are many people brought to you over your lifetime that are your true loves. Now, you may be fortunate enough to find the one person who you are compatible with, and mature enough with, to last your life time. But that is a more rare occurrence. And then there are soul mates, another topic all together!
2007-08-07 13:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by crittersitterjenna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. people always are changing and matureing someone you thought was you true love could just be a passing fling while the person you never thought had the potential is the one you become hitch to. One true love...if someone can only truely love one person then that person is emotionally constipated.
2007-08-15 12:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by aleka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do. I knew the very first time I saw my husband that I was going to marry him and spend the rest of my life with him. I had these feelings before I even spoke to him. It was the same thing for my Mom and Dad and my Grandparents. Me and my husband are going on four years of marriage. My parents are going on 24 years of marriage and my grandparents were happily married until death did them part. I know I love my husband more and more each day.
2007-08-15 13:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There must be lots of people who could be a true love for any one person. If there was only one, we would have to be extremely lucky to find that person.
2007-08-15 12:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Love is a connection you feel with someone that is deepened by sexual attraction and a bonding of spirit. I think you can have that several times in a lifetime... if you keep your heart open.
2007-08-15 11:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by ahlannagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not anymore,not after she stomped on the heart and moved away
2007-08-07 13:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by Stymie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. for hot people, there are dozens, even hundreds.
for ugly people, there's no true love.
2007-08-15 10:16:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋