ok, so my bf and i live about a 40min drive from each other, so we only really see each other on weekends, and well, i've been thinkin about movin in together, or at least to his town, but im not quite sure how to bring it up and was kinda curious to know when most couples move in together?? any ideas are greatly appreicated!!!!
2007-08-07 11:56:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh... and we''ve been together for 7 mths!!
2007-08-07 12:04:42 · update #1
you did not say how long you all have been together and that is important . if you have not been together for at least a yr dont even think about moving in together yet. Let it be .
2007-08-07 12:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U could bring it up by sayin I was thinkin about moving closer to U or if he livies in a different city to that city. An go from there but there is a chance that he likes things the way they are.. If he complains about only seeing U on the weekends then I would bring it up.. But if that doesn't bother him, then U could be settin ur self up for hurt feelings. Plus movin in with ur bf is a big step an jus becuase U want it doesn't mean he does..
2007-08-07 19:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to ask him how he feels about you and express how you feel about him, this will give you more of an idea about how he views your relationship. Though you really miss him I honestly suggest you moving closer to him that way you guys can see each other more and get to know each other a little better. Moving in with someone especially a boyfriend is a big step and 7 months worth the weekends isn't long enough to know what he's really like at home.
2007-08-07 19:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by Hot Chocolate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's way too soon. if you are really desperate to make this work and you two are serious about the relationship, i think it would be a little smarter if you at least move to his town, or just closer to him, if possible. that way you two could spend a lot of time together, get to know eachother more, and if it doesn't work out the way you thought, you won't be in such a bad situation where you'd have to live with eachother when you're not getting along as well as you two would have hoped. good luck :)
2007-08-07 19:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm maybe u should just ask him..and if he says he not ready than ok
2007-08-07 19:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by travis P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he ready for that step...if not, you are going to look super dumb
2007-08-07 18:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋