Yes I am going to be celebrating my one year old daughters birthday come september and I wanted to have a big party, lots of food for the guest there are at least 40 (big families and I work in a big salon lots of girls) and a moonwalk for "their" children I have some friends that are saying I am stupid for doing this that she wont know the difference, but I am not thinking she's gonna know whats going on I just though as a thank you to everyone that shows up to have lots of food and fun things for their kids to enjoy and a memorable first childs first birthday for myself and husband but from an outsiders point of veiw i'd like some thoughts on if I am doing to much thank you :)
2007-08-07 08:16:02 · 23 answers · asked by Vanessa♥ 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I felt the same way when my daughter turned 1, I wanted a circus to celebrate my baby's big day, because to me it was special, and when I told everyone I wanted a huge party they kinda brought me down, saying things like "OH she wont remember" or "Why spend the money when you can save it for her college" . I know she won't remember but I can take pictures and she would of known what a great huge big birthday bash she had and having everybody in the world there that loves her there. I unfortunately only had a small get together with family at my house instead. It was fun but not what I wanted my daughter to have, so I say go for it! Nothings to good for your little one and the memories you keep are important right now too!
Good Luck
2007-08-07 09:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by ▒Bella▒ 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you are asking this question I would say YES
A birthday party for a one year old should be Mommy Daddy and Maybe Grandparents and then it should be short and sweet.
Anything else is a family gathering and you can bet that baby will be over tired
If you truly want to make this special for Baby then it should be scaled down just for him. Otherwise its just an overwhelming day with a lot of confusion and less attention from MOM and DAD
2007-08-07 08:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by Bemo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does seem excessive. I mean what will you do for her party when she CAN remember it? You admit it's more for the guests than your child. The people coming to the party, if they are true friends, do not expect a big hoopla, they know it's a first birthday party. They just want to be there to help you celebrate a milestone and support you as a family. But, hey, it's your decision, what you do with your time and money is up to you. I didn't go to that much effort for my child's first. We had family over, fixed a nice meal and had cake. But that's what we chose to do. Good luck and have a good time!
2007-08-07 08:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by disneychick 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
in my opinion i think that is a bit to much... haveing a big party is one thing...but haveing a moonwalk is another...id save the moonwalk for when shes older so she can enjoy it too ...i just celebrated my sons birthday in july and i had a big party (due to a big family) and i had it at a park...so all the kids that will be there will have fun as my son gets to enjoy himself outside in the park...its cheap and its a win win situation....just an idea
2007-08-07 12:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by turco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask....then you already know the answer.
You don't have to spend a ridiculous amount of money to make a memorable party. Besides, the more activity you have going on, the more likely it is that your daughter will have a total and complete meltdown.
But since you're probably going to have the big party anyway, I'll just tell you this. The bigger their first birthday party is, the smaller the second one will be. We all learn the hard way on that one. I went a little crazy last year. This year, it's pizza, cake and some crayons.
2007-08-07 08:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by Vanessa P 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Your daughter won't know the difference, but first birthday parties aren't really for the kid anyway. When our twins turned one, my wife threw a big bash and had it catered. We had probably 20 couples and their kids running around. It was a lot of fun. And our twins slept through most of it, but it was a good way to get family and friends together. I think it's a good idea, have the party and have fun.
2007-08-07 09:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by Yogi 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honey, you are celebrating the birth of your child and it is his first birthday:
YOU DO WHAT YOU WANT, WHEN YOU WANT, AND HOW.
The moonwalk is a great idea because it sounds that all your guest are not one year olds or less. It is also a great time to get to know other parents and see how their children are etc.
It is your baby's bday but it is nothing wrong with celebrating the day you went thru hell and back (and would gladly do it again) for your baby to be here so damn anyone else who thinks different.
2007-08-07 08:34:14 · answer #7 · answered by darcanjle 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think its great to have a party for a one year old. But i think that something to big is just over doing it. Will the child remember this moment? A great idea is to focus the early morning to the evening on your child then when dark falls keep the party going for the adults. So that you can get full use of everything.
2007-08-07 08:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by Keisha 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
anyone hosting a party for a one year old is not hosting the party for the one year old. you already know that you are planning this party to appease yourself and your friends & family who are expecting you to. i also have a daughter who is approaching her 1st birthday. i refuse to put myself out, both financially and emotionally, to plan and host a huge, expensive party for someone who will only remember what happened because she's seen the photos over 100 times. it's WAY too much stimulation for the 1 year old, as well, and particularly selfish of those suggesting or pressuring you to go through with such a large event for such a small munchkin. everyone will show up and want to hold her and play with her, their kids will be all over her and the noise/activity level will be more over the top than your party plan for the little one to manage.
my plan for my own soon-to-be-1-year-old and suggestion for you is to split the gathering and have a couple of small scale afternoon lunches with only a couple people at a time to celebrate in a more relaxing and managable atmosphere.
You'll be able to spend more quality time with those who are present as opposed to running around like a chicken with your head cut off trying to please all the wrong people and you'll save money cuz you won't overbuy and end up with too much wasted food... and, besides, who doesn't want a birthday that lasts and lasts, after all!?! :D
2007-08-07 08:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by momuv2 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It seems over the top, your daughter won't remember or understand and she's the guest of honor. But as proud parents, if you want to party down for your child's birthday, then do so. I ducked two of these 1 yr birthday parties this summer because I thought it sounded silly honestly.
2007-08-07 08:31:38 · answer #10 · answered by Sandy Sandals 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋