Okay, I have this guy that I've been friends with for a few months now and I'm starting to really like him.
I mean, we flirt constantly when we are around each other and he kisses me on the cheek and on the the forehead and stuff like that, but I don't know if he is serious or just fooling around.
He told me last night that he liked my eyes. I want to tell him how I feel, but I'm afraid of rejection. How does a shy girl confess how she feels without getting in too deep?
Any suggestions?
2007-08-07 06:26:14 · 11 answers · asked by corvette_chic86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If hes kissing you like that, it's a huuuuge sign that he likes you. I don't kiddingly kiss girls that I don't like.
Theres no way around it either, you just gotta come out and say that you like him :/
2007-08-07 06:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience, it's best to just straight out tell him the truth, because if you don't he'll find someone else, and that will hurt worse than anything. Just be like "I'm not sure what your feelings of me really are but I really like you" and you can be free to express how you feel. You can even ask him his feelings first. He seems like he's a nice, understanding guy. If you're rejected, at least you'll know, then it might not pound you as badly if he's with another. Good luck. :)
2007-08-07 13:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by Morty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he kisses your check turn and try to catch the kiss on the lips. That's a playful way to get your point across with out saying a word...
2007-08-07 13:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by mrskerlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be upfront and honest... I'm a shy guy. I tend to use words (such as a letter, note, email, text...) to express my feelings for people. Sometimes I even write poems. I find it less awkward, because you're not face-to-face. They still may reject you, but wouldn't you rather know...?
2007-08-07 13:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all fear rejection, but if u don't tell him your interested in him u will miss out on an opportunity to see if u two might fit great together. All he can say is he's not interested.... better to know then wonder and miss out on something special....
2007-08-07 13:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by dobu256 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel it seems like he does like u i wud go 4 it n if he does reject u then atleast he didnt dump u as if he had gone out wit u 4 only a couple of days
2007-08-07 13:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by basketgirlteen13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno exactly what ur doin just be ur self which it seems like ur doing a pretty good job with that lolz um this could sound funny but when i did this i went to my room he followed i got my phone and said excuse me i gotta call my boyfriend and watch there facial expression and axually call his phone .., it worked 4 me im srry if that sounds stupid but it works.... or u could just come right out and tell him
2007-08-07 13:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by Jess ka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I kind of think you should hold off on telling him and let him chase you. I find that it works out a lot better that way.
2007-08-07 13:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Mimsie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him an email or write him a letter it worked for me and im still with this guy after 16 yrs.......lol hehe good luck!!
2007-08-07 13:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by ~*cindy *~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The game of love. Take it slow.
2007-08-07 13:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by ted j 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋