2007-08-07 06:19:07 · 27 answers · asked by sexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
say this, baby I want the best thing for you but I want to break up with you because I am the wrong one for you I need you to be free and find someone else and be happy with them, It's not you but it's me, I need time to think so I am breaking up with you, I don't complete you and you don't complete me please try to understand
peace out( don't say peace out)
2007-08-07 06:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be direct. Be specific. And just do it. Don't beat around the bush. Don't make excuses. Tell him it's over. Tell him why. Then drop him like a hot potato. Don't take his calls. Don't talk to him. Don't read his texts or emails. Let him go.
It sounds cruel, but in the long run you will be doing yourself AND him a favor. His feelings are going to be hurt, regardless of how you do it, so being direct makes the most sense. It will hurt for awhile, but your being direct and cutting him off will give him the hint that it is, indeed, done. Then he will be more willing and able to get on with his life himself. It didn't work out. It happens. You both need to move on.
Good luck!
2007-08-07 13:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To say in a nice manner, tell him that you need to be alone for a moment to cool down. Then tell him that both of you are still good friend during this period of time to cool down.
So when you are no longer interested to be with him again then just tell him that you feel that both of you can only be friends.Sy a sorry at the ending and an emotion will provide a better console to him. =/
2007-08-07 13:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by 2nd-hamsterlord 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In person if at all possible... Call him and say we need to meet.... wherever (as long as it's not YOUR home) but make sure he knows there is a time limit. This is essential! You could say something like "meet me at the park at 6 pm but I have to leave by 6:15. There is something we need to discuss." When you get together with him you simply say, "I'm sorry but this relationship is not working out." If you have a reason that you want to give, go ahead. But keep it as simple as possible. It gets so much more difficult the more you talk about it.
2007-08-07 13:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by cougarose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no easy way to tell your boyfriend that it is over.. it depends on how long you guys have been together... but i think that you should ust be honest with him.. i mean you could do it in person or you can do it over the phone.. but it all depends on what kind of relationship you have and how long you guys have been together... honesty is always the best way to go.. no matter how hard it is...
2007-08-07 13:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by Broken Blue Eyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be straight up and tell him the reasons and don`t lie to him .
Tell him how you would like to be told if things were backwards
Honesty ,truth and fair play is the best way to go
2007-08-07 13:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by kevinmccleanblack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodbye
2007-08-07 13:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by Gi952 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest.
And don't hold back because you might hurt his feelings. In truth, you will hurt his feelings. But it is better to be honest about why you are breaking up with him than to lie.
Lying only complicates matters.
And if you are truthful, at least there won't be unanswered questions in his mind.
2007-08-07 13:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by Randall W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres no better way when it comes to finish with a relationship,cuz its going to be hard anywayz..so just be honest tell him the way you feel about the relationship and that things are not working for you
2007-08-07 13:23:55 · answer #9 · answered by tu nina linda! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, say to him, Its over. We are breaking up. Time for us both to move on. Then quit taking his calls, quit going out with him, quit seeing him. Let him understand that you are serious. Just say, We are done.
2007-08-07 13:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋