so i havent hung out with my bf since sat nite and i saw him yesterday for 5 mins and asked him if he wanted to hang out tonight and he said sure...so he texted me this morning and said he wasnt sure if he wanted to hang out tonight because he was feeling good when it was 8am and we werent hanging out til 8pm. so i said well whatever i havent seen you in 3 days for more than 5 mins but its up to you and it kind of hurt my feelings bc it seemed like he just didnt want to see me and he said no hes just broke and doesnt want to seem like hes cheap but i dont expect him to pay for things anyways and then he said he just likes some days by himself too and i said well i only wanted to hang out with you tonite im not asking every nite this week so i said whatever and then he sent me a text saying that he will see me tonite....so is he losing interest or what happened here?
2007-08-07 05:52:15 · 18 answers · asked by Selina S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u need to chill out. he sounds like a well rounded guy give him a break.
2007-08-07 05:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he just wants to spend the evening with out you. On the other hand, you sound really desperate for his attention. When he said he didn't want to hang with you tonight, you should have just said okay. Then let it go. If he thinks that you are going to do your own thing, he will probably want to spend some more time with you. Let him have his space and do something different tonight. Don't guilt him into spending time with you.
2007-08-07 12:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by sammie1222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a lot of mixed signals here
if you have more than kissed him-that would explain it
if not seek help
ok =there is help from above that we live life heart happy comforted in our soul, no matter what=there is a thing different called true love and marriage
think about it
believe in Jesus that is the key to caring=Smile
answers from above=and its time for help from above -read Romans 1 to be thankfull and share the gospel and worship the creator instead of the created-this helped me alot=
the ultimate answer is still the same, its about the one that still loves us unconditionally=
and look up for help from above=In Jesus amazing grace John 3 repented and asked Jesus in my heart to forgive sins and be my friend, amen"
Revelation 3:19&20 as he asks-for the more abundant life=John 10
best wishes and prayer for you my friend
a nice friend who is my x g/f who we never got a soul tie cause we honored each other and we are still friends, wrote me=
Mon Aug
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Thanks so much for your nice message. :) Keep posting those questions on Yahoo Answers!! People are hearing the Gospel and they are being spiritually challenged as well. I am praying for that one who you said she didn't believe in blood atonement for sin. Keep showing this world the love of Christ!! I'm praying for you and I know the Lord will continue to use you mightily!
ready just open your heart friend-and you will have inner peace and joy beyond compare
peace up prayin for you too, the sweet pea, David
2007-08-07 17:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, if he makes up excuses. But guys need their space too. They will take a day off or two. Dont seem too obsessed. the only real way to tell is for you to wait and be the one who is called not the one whos calling. If he calls you, then he isnt loosing intrest. If he doesnt call you, then he has.
2007-08-07 12:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You came off as needy. He asked for time to himself and you got upset. Just because he isn't with you doesn't mean that he is alone. Family, friends, and work/school also take up a lot of time. He'll lose interest if you can't give him space when he needs and asks for it.
2007-08-07 12:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just want to tell you that this is nothing new ....guys have been mystifying women since the beginning of time....if he doesn't seem like he wants to be with you maybe you should back off and let him call you when he wants to be with you...then you can have the decision on whether or not you want to see him. he might feel like he has to see you tonite...tell him that's okay i'll see you later . don't call or text him and see what happens.
2007-08-07 12:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by jazzy l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he has more problems than just being broke try talking to him on the phone or texting him and he says that nothings wrong then somethings wrong, boys never admit these things and if he tells you the problem be understanding listen and be patient, then tell him sorry but you can't help him or give him some really good advice
2007-08-07 12:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think hes losing interest I think he just really need some space. i know you say u havent seen each other but that doesn mean you havent talked right? guys are a little weird b/c they dont want to feel tied down or constantly with someone. they need "guy time". i think he changed his mind b/c you were hurt, so just talk when you see each other.... but dont fight. fighting is always bad.
2007-08-07 12:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's interested....he's a good guy with a conscience. You do need to give him a break...sounds like you have a great boyfriend there.
Good for you!
2007-08-07 13:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the man some space maybe he needs some me-time i mean me and my gf go on dates every 2 weeks and during those 2 weeks we talk on the phone call him every now and then....all he needs is space....
2007-08-07 12:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anarchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋