Okay I have this "so called" boyfriend. I have been with him for 8 months. I am still a teenager! He's 17 and im 14 but we are cool with that. He went to jail in June and I moved out of the neighborhood. So I have not seen him. I seen him in 2 months. I will maybe see him when my mom rides through the neighborhood and that was 1 or 2 times. I have his phone number and I have talk to him 2 times and that's it. The reason for is his male cousin does not like me. His cousin does not like me because his male tried to play me in front of alot of people and I cursed him out. So every time I call his cousin will answer the phone with an attitude and say my boyfriend is sleep or not their. So I just call every day and hang up just in case my boyfriend answers so I can tell him what's going on cause I dont think he knows. I'm in love with my boyfriend and we want to be together. We also love each. So what to do? What would you? I dont want to loose him!
2007-08-07 05:47:30 · 9 answers · asked by Neesee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My mom does not know that I'm in a relationship with him. He wants to come see me but my mom acts crazy if I even talk to boys. My boyfriend is not a bad guy. People do make mistakes. Everyone is not perfect.
2007-08-07 06:08:48 · update #1
You are 14. You are not in love. And your boyfriend is a convict. What the heck is wrong with you? If you two have sex, it's illegal! Where the hell is your mom? She needs to be paying more attention to you.
2007-08-07 05:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
People do not normally go to jail for being a "nice guy". You have not given enough info.
If you were my daughter I would, of course, forbid this contact and would move to the moon to stop it.
Do you like money?
Dump this guy, push your brain to achieve a good education and make some . . . money.
America is absolutely FULL of money and ways to earn a ton of it. Why shackle yourself to a guy who goes to jail; unless there is something wrong with you?
2007-08-15 07:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by aviator147 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think and evaluate the situation. not with your heart but your head and your brain. your heart won't see things your head will see. just know how boys work and ignore the fact he went to jail so what like you said ppl make mistakes. your jail bate when he turns 18. really think about what he wants from you and what your giving him. why isnt he trying to get in touch with you. the truth hurts but you need to wake up and see the situation for what it is.
2007-08-15 11:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by beautifull103087 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first just let time pass if you guess love each other it'll work out.. think of it as a challenge... plus he should be the one calling you or at least finding ways to see you or talk to often.. i doubt the cousin will be on his @ss all the time ... doesnt this strike you as odd? is that any way to show you that "he loves you" ?? ... ur gonna end up getting hurt by a dumba*_ who is not worth it
2007-08-07 12:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by Jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14...move on. He's not worth your time. Maybe get a hobby and stop worrying about boys. You have plenty of time for all that later.
2007-08-07 12:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by acatisacomintogetcha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my dear you ages are way too different and will cause the young man trouble. you are what they call jail bate now and you are way too young for him like child and adult. you need to leave him alone or he could be in jail for good. take care.
2007-08-13 23:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
17--14. you will do what you want to do, you want support for your decision, I certainly would not have a 14 year old girl-friend if I were 17,you know what to do, do it.
2007-08-15 09:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true, not everyone is bad, but you do realize that by you dating him, he could go to jail. because of you being fourteen and him being seventeen?
2007-08-15 11:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by criminal_justice2007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is making excuses not to see you. Get out before you get hurt.
2007-08-07 12:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by Magic Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋