you know if you already did it but you want a fresh start and want to wait till you get married
2007-08-07 04:50:34 · 29 answers · asked by just plain me 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I think its great! Some people call it "born again virgin" some call it being "abstinent." It doesn't matter which one you choose, both are a great way to live your life.
I really understand you when you say fresh start. Saving sex until you are married has a lot of advantages. whoever said own up to your past, and focus on your future was right. Choosing to be abstinent can help in many ways. It cut down on the emotional baggage you acquire, you don't have to worry about STDs or unwanted/ early pregnancy, and it gives you a chance to focus on your future without any distractions.
Plus, the most important thing, taking sex out of the equation allows you to get to know you and the things you want. It allows you to know the things you will and wont accept in a relationship. Once you get to the point where you are ready for a relationship, the odds of that relationship succeeding are greater!
Whatever you choose be safe, be smart, and have fun!
2007-08-07 05:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by hypnotiq8 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'm uncertain the place to circulate to grow to be a born back virgin however the hymen would not get popped or bumped off only stretched. How could virgins have sessions if the hymen replaced into easily a seal?
2016-10-14 07:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call yourself abstinent.
Why bring the "born again" into it?
You can't actually ever be a virgin again, so just be honest with yourself and with everyone else and abstain until you feel ready.
2007-08-07 06:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by prana_devi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think the only way someone can be a born again virgin is if the, umm, sex was forced on to them, otherwise you got screwed and now are. but, then again doing the knotty before marriage is ok in my book, i mean, hmm, well, this is a kinda touchy subject, but you just don't go buy a car, you know what i mean, you gotta, umm, test drive first.
2007-08-07 04:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by RuG™ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
once you lose your virginity you can NEVER get it back, no matter what you can even have surgery, but you still are not a virgin, but i consider a "born again virgin" to be someone who is celibate, and for some crazy reason thinks that they can get their virginity back. but all it really is, is celibacy
2007-08-07 06:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by Nadine 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's called born again respect. Own your past ,change your future
2007-08-07 05:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
That's a great decision to make for yourself, if that's what feels right to you and all... but please, why call it "born again virgin"? It is no such thing. Let's call it like it is:
"I am no longer a virgin, but I am choosing abstinence now until marriage."
2007-08-07 04:54:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
I think it medically and realistically cannot happen.
But spiritually and emotionally, yes. You can become a "virgin".
2007-08-07 04:55:27 · answer #8 · answered by metalholics18 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
my fiance and I are doing that. we are getting married in January and abstaining from sex (helps that he's in Argentina for a month). we are not religious, but think it will add some "specialness" to the wedding night.
2007-08-07 04:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You will only be able to stay a virgin until marriage, by the help of the Holy Spirit, which
ONLY,
saved persons have.
2007-08-07 04:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by 1saintofGod 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋